Sunday, August 22, 2010

I need to brake out of my shell. and kinda need advise?

i always soooo scared to do things. im supposed to hangout with this guy tomorrow and im like deathly afraid. haha ive hungout with guys before, but i guess im really insecure. i dont think im fat or ugly. but i dont feel good enough still. and this guy is like perfect. i need help on not caring about the littlest imperfections with myself. any suggestions?I need to brake out of my shell. and kinda need advise?
Don't get drunk or high. Point out every imperfection in magazines with the models. Then look at the awesomeness of your looks.I need to brake out of my shell. and kinda need advise?
in order to break out of your shell you must first have a useful tool to do so, like a hammer
i think you should love yourself for who you are be you at all times you never know he may seem so perfect and he may find you being so perfect just be yourself you never know what may come along try it! god bless!!!
i know it's hard but just be yourself. you want people to like you for YOU, so be yourself. if this guy does not like you for YOU then do you really want to hang out with HIM? it's hard and i still struggle with it myself but i just try to tell myself that i just need to be the person that i truly am and if someone doesnt like me for ME then that's fine because i am happy with who i am.
just have fun just be you dont think about what he might like. Make suggestions on what you want to do just dont be forceful. But mainly just have fun and be yourself dont care about anything and if he likes what he shes then its ok. in the end at least you know you were not being fake
Pick out an outfit you are comfortable in and look good in. Put on a lil make up.





Be yourself.





If someone doesnt like the real you they arent worth your time :)
he obviously likes u then.. he likes ur personality, your looks.. everything.


all u have to do is be yourself.! dress casual,, a little make up if u really want to,, just to boost your confidence a little =]





just be yourself,, xxx =]





AND HAVE FUN =]=]
get drunk haha
Have some confidence in yourself. If he's giving you the time of day, then you should already feel a little confident right? Most importantly, don't WORRY too much beforehand or you're just going to freak yourself out more. Relax and have a good time.
pretend that the guy you date is your brother
What u need probably cant be done over night but here goes.... Strip butt naked and stand in front of a full length mirror and look at what God has blessed u with. Even though there is nothing unhuman about ppl with disabilities; look at yourself and give thanks for what u have and start loving you. It took me a LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOng long time but i now realize that the love and respect I have for myself will show in everything I ever do including loving and respecting others. So girl just chill. Be you. Dont worry because at the end of the day guess what.. you will still be u and that in itself is a blessing.
First say to yourself nobody is perfect. Also since he has agreed to hangout with you he likes you somewhat. If he wants to talk, let him, everyone likes a good listener. While you are there talk about usual stuff music, movies, school and everything else.
dont give yourself away first if your not comfortable and 2nd dont give yourself away just cause hes perfect make him work for it, let him show you hes worthy enough to have what you got , i promis itll work , we hate it when you girls do that but it makes us want you even worse lol so try it
I know how you feel. I asked this guy to the cinema thinking that he will say no. But he sed yes so I got so scared and nervous, but then when we met I just relaxed and we had good time. he most important thing is to be yourself and don't try to act like you're someone you're not, guys adn girls can see it and they hate it (BIG TURN OFF) Not to mention there is no such thing as a perfect guy and don't worry as long as you feel beautiful and great inside it shows outside (what i am trying to say is, if you feel that you are dead gorgeous inside you make other people feel the same way) Also, i heared tht wearing parfume get guys attention faster then anything else. don't forget to be relaxed and enjoy your day tommorrow. (don't critisise yourself too much, guys like confident girls)
Just relax and be yourself. You'll be fine.
you just gotta tell yourself you look great. nobody's perfect....





go listen to the song ';freckles'; by natasha bedingfield.





best of luck!

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