Ok this morning i was jacking off, i always do it in the morning or at nights. I always seem to have an erection when i wake up for some reason and its aggravating. And my mom walked in on me and she just like froze and so did i, i did not know what to do and so she just back out slowly and closed the door. i am so embarrassed advise please?!?!?!My mom walked in on me this morning what should i do? Advise?
It is normal, of course, for men or younger man to do what you do. I'm sure you know this. Your mother can not be that clueless to never think this would never happen. You are a young male I assume, and it is okay. You are not the only male who has ever done this. Who has had a embarassing moment. Men's sexuality is way different then us woman. We do not wake up as men do and take care of business so to speak. Our sexuality is not like that. Not saying is does not happen for us to have our private moments as well. At times when we have our relationships in life, we need to reach that moment so to speak. We just don't jump on it and take care of business, we (us woman) need foreplay to get aroused to reach that peak. Do you follow?
I am not sure if you have a girlfriend or not or if you are dating yet, but remember one rule. Respect your girlfriend. Do not push the issue with her, give her time and she will let you know when she is ready to take it a step further. We do not like to push the issue of having sex right off the bat. Unless it is somoene who is ready from the beginning, and if that is the case, remember to take your time with her. Please her in ways before you take it to intercourse.
I don't want to embarasse you with my answer here, but it will be okay. If the conversation comes up with your mother, I am sure she will understand. Just next time lock the door or be more careful. To relate with your body and your own needs is not a bad thing. And it is normal for men to wake up with erections. That is part of being a man. Sometimes no matter what you are doing or what time of the day it is, boom...it's there...lol...not laughing at you hon. I am married and so I know. Good luck to you.My mom walked in on me this morning what should i do? Advise?
Woah, stay calm, dude, it's not like it's the end of the world. Since you're probably a teenager, she should have been expecting something like this sooner or later. Of course she froze, but she won't come with a bazooka after you don't worry ;)
As for what to do next, the best advice would be to talk about it with her as soon as possible and say you're sorry she had to witness that and I'm sure, although it will be awkward, she won't be mad at you.
Or, it you're too embarrassed to do that, act like it never happened and lock your door next time. It's not guaranteed that she'll never bring it up but that's a risk you'll have to take.
Also, if you haven't had one of those, expect 'the talk' very soon ;)
Pretty much every human being that knows what masturbation is does it. I know, it's embarrasing and everything, but there's not much you can do.. She knows you do it now, she'll give you privacy, as horrible as it is to think about she was probably in the 95% of females that do it as well... so just relax.
Be pissed off at her. Be like ';Would you ******* knock next time yeah!';
;) Should work..
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Localili or whatever, you are just speaking for yourself there. Women can, and do, get as horny as males. They don't need foreplay to get in the mood all the time - it's nice, but it's not compulsary... Women aren't that different to guys in their sexual needs..
Your mom was young once, she knows the score, i bet its just uncomfortable thinking of your own child doing it. But i bet she's just like me and hopefully she'll remember about when she was younger and things like that. Just ask your mom, if you could have a lock on your door or a key or something like that, just tell her you need a bit of privacy. You don't have to spell things out for her and i'm sure she will understand!! Just try and get over the embarressment of it!
There really isn't much you can do.
It's not like it should be a complete shock for me, most teens do that. So it's not some...weird type of thing.
I guess just wait until the weirdness goes away, atleast that is what I would do.
Nothing to say. You both should probably pretend it didn't happen. Now she knows you're growing up. If your dad's around you could tell him. He could bring it up to your mother so it won't be uncomfortable between you. They'll probably laugh about it.
tell your mom to start knocking before entireing your room you should be able to get off in your own room what would happen if you just walk in you mom and dad room with out knocking will it's the same your mom will get over it
that errect you get in the morning is common and is general term is piss horn you wake up with horn have piss it goes downthe horn you get at night well thats what you wanted
I'd just walk up to her and say ';mum, it's natural, all guys do it, can we get over it now?'; and leave it at that. It's not like you did anything wrong.
lol i know someone that had that happend lol when his mom walked in he jumped an hollered i want candy lol sorry my answer aint helpful
You aren't the first guy it has happened to, won't be the last. Just shrug it off.
On the bright side, she's probably going to knock from now on.
well its a normal thing if your mom has a problem cont blame yourself its just kind of weird to see you um... in that position! just relax.
It's only natural. I am sure your mother is mature enough to realise this.
Just look at her, shrug, and say 'It ain't gonna beat itself!'
just act like it never happened
she knows it a part of everybodies life. tell her about it and she will understand
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