Wednesday, November 23, 2011

Aluminium Box body van any advise on painting it ie type of paint to use primer remove all old paint or sand?

downAluminium Box body van any advise on painting it ie type of paint to use primer remove all old paint or sand?
Hi,





Removing the paint or not will depend on the state of it.


If it's in good condition the first thing to know is what kind of paint it is. Otherwise other stuff going on top may wrinkle it.


You'll also have to use a primer according to the paint you're going to use - again taking into account the paint already there. Mind that although one usually cannot use acrylic (solvent based) over synthetic, there are surfaces who permit an isolation of the synthetic to receive acrylics or cellulosics.


Anyway, sand the surface with a P600, for insteance, the degrease it. Apply the primer. The apply the paint .


It is important to respect the time between layers otherwise the solvent between layers won't evaporate (flash off) and you'll have problems. Either soon or later.





Now, if the paint is in bad condition, sand it down to the alluminium.


Your market is different from the market here in Portugal, so maybe you'll find a paint that can be used directly on alluminium (you may check Krilon/Krillon (?) )


Usually when painting on alluminium or zinc one uses a fosfatizing primer (2 components) or sometimes a Washprimer (2 components). These are applied with two VERY THIN coats. Then one can apply a regular primer.


Another primer that can be used on alluminium is an epoxy one (Ferrari's boddy is alluminium and uses an epoxy one if I'm not mistaken).


And that's all.


If you have any doubt, just e-mail me.





Take care,





Jos茅


http://sitekreator.com/hushcolours/index鈥?/a>Aluminium Box body van any advise on painting it ie type of paint to use primer remove all old paint or sand?
ah just put a great big sticker over the lot of it
I'd use quick dry acrylic spray unless you have access to professional equipment and a spray booth, (I'll assume you havent otherwise you wouldn't be asking on here) most pros would use two pack but it gives off toxic fumes so dont go up that route. high build primer will help ( but costly ) unless the aluminium has some oxidisation, I'd just flat off (take the shine off the existing paint) prime and spray over the top. If it has then treat the localised areas with 40grit emery cloth then a lighter grade to finish off, high build prime and do the same for the rest.





Im assuming this is a commercial grade paint job not a show winning custom finish you are after.





Hope this helps

My landlord have not returned security deposit? 10 points for the best advise. Thank you?

She is the most flip flop woman I have ever met. She is all about money. I moved out on Dec 12. I have not received anything from her.





Actually, I don't really want the money, but I just HATE to let her take advantage from me and others.





Thank youMy landlord have not returned security deposit? 10 points for the best advise. Thank you?
Many landlords do this. They know that you will have to take them to small claims court and they hang on to the cash. It costs 65 dollars to file a claim. Send her a registered letter and tell her that it is illegal to with hold the security dep. Tell her you will pick it up from her. If she doesn't comply then take her to court. It is worth go through the process in order to build your confidence in the system and to use this avenue in the future if you need to.My landlord have not returned security deposit? 10 points for the best advise. Thank you?
You should want the money if you are entitled to it, take it back. Take her to the tenancy tribunal, they will help you get the money back. good luck
leagally they have 30 days to return your deposit...All of it, if they keep any, you need to be notified in writing how much was kep and for what reason. Send her a certified letter letting her know that you know the laws and request (demand) your money be returned with 7 days, if not you will see them in small claims court, where you could be awarded triple damages for their failure of following the law.
Why hasn't she returned it? Was the house left in a mess? If not then just do whta i did when it happened to me.


I sent my landlord a letter advising if i didnt have the money returned within 7 working days i would be taking legal action on the matter.


I spoke to the citizens advice who told me i had to do this first and keep a copy of the letter i made and send the letter recorded delivery so she cant worm out of it by saying she hasnt got the letter.


I was lucky as when i sent this i got my money back.


The next thing to do if you dont get any joy is to visit a solicitor and ask for advice on what to do next, advice is free with some solicitors. They may advise you to get a formal letter from a solicitor which costs about 拢30 and it will say if she does not return the money they will look to take her to the small claims court.





Good luck, hope you get it back.
Without knowing what state you reside in, it's hard to give advice on what laws prevail reqarding security deposit. State laws can vary anywhere from 15 to 60 days, where some states, such as New York, have no set time..only ';reasonable';.

DOES ANYONE HAVE ANY ADVISE ON DIETS? I AM TRYING TO LOSE WEIGHT , AND HAVE TRYED EVERYTHING OUT THERE. ?

I AM NOT OVERWEIGHT ENOUGH FOR LAPBAND OR GASTRIC BYPASS.DOES ANYONE HAVE ANY ADVISE ON DIETS? I AM TRYING TO LOSE WEIGHT , AND HAVE TRYED EVERYTHING OUT THERE. ?
I was overweight enough for a gastric bypass and I lost the weight.





The problem is, when you say that you've tried everything out there, you probably mean you've tried all the fad diets. Not only do those not work, but they make things worse.





I was over 100lbs overweight and now I look great. If you're serious about wanting to lose, you can go ahead and email me (email is on my profile). Otherwise, I'm not wasting my time typing it here. DOES ANYONE HAVE ANY ADVISE ON DIETS? I AM TRYING TO LOSE WEIGHT , AND HAVE TRYED EVERYTHING OUT THERE. ?
I can ';hear'; the frustration but don't give up! Keep trying and eventually, you'll be successful! Before I give you my diet advice, here's a motivational page that really helped me and hopefully will help you too!


http://www.easy-weightloss-tips.com/moti鈥?/a>





Okay, back to the diet part, first of all, my best suggestion is to learn to eat healthy.


http://www.easy-weightloss-tips.com/eat-鈥?/a>


That means understand the food pyramid, the food groups, the recommended servings, etc. That is how you should eat for life! If you eat that way and have 3 small, healthy meals a day and 2 small, healthy snacks, you will lose weight. Each meal should be less than 400 calories and each snack should be about 100-150 calories. Eating highly nutritious foods is the key, so think in terms of lean protein, veggies, whole-grains, fruits, low-fat dairy, and heart-healthy oils.





The second option is to do a short-term ';drastic diet'; that is designed to last for 2 weeks max. This would take off the most weight rapidly. There are several on the site under ';Diet Plans'; but my favorite is the 5-4-3-2-1 diet.


http://www.easy-weightloss-tips.com/5-4-鈥?/a>


You get to pick what you eat, but you're going to want to pick highly nutritious foods to keep your metabolism working efficiently. Again, the ';eat healthy'; page can help you determine what highly nutritious foods are, if you need help with that. If you go on the short-term diet, then once it's over, follow the guidelines on the ';eat healthy'; page.





Make water your main source of hydration and save the sweet drinks (even diet) for special occasions. Eliminate as much salt and sugar from your diet as you can.





The biggest component to fast weight loss is going to be your workout. You will want to make sure you do a good cardio workout every day for weight loss (3 times a week is sufficient to maintain health). Activities that use the large leg muscles burn the most calories. These activities also tone the lower body quite effectively. Think in terms of


power walking, jogging, biking, skating, swimming laps, jumping rope, dancing, racquetball, and jumping jacks. To make sure that you're burning fat, you need to be sweating and huffing and puffing. In addition, do some good stretches and some strength training.





You'll find some really good information on the website, including about five pages of weight loss tips, printable weight loss journal pages, printable exercise log sheets, motivational ideas, healthy recipes, etc.



The good news is it is possible to lose weight. The bad news is it's gonna take some work. Forget surgeries or pills or what not. If you want to lose weight you will want to lose it long term right?





The only way is to follow a good diet program. Remember when you decide to lose weight you would want it long term so you have to make a lifestyle change. It's a lifestyle change. Think about that. Only if you're ready to commit to that then you can be successful. Determination and discipline is the key. Below is a good program that has worked for me personally. You can also check out my blog at


http://www.squidoo.com/successfulweightl鈥?/a>





The website below will explain more on a good weight loss program.
www.webmd.com





This site has been a weight loss inspiration to me for 2 years. I have used their tips and taken their diet advice and I have kept the weight I lost off for a year. THEY ARE NOT TRYING TO SELL SOMETHING, they just have sensible advice and information on what ';healthy eating'; really means.
Ok one dont eat fast food. two eat as many fruits and veggies as you want but dont add to them with ranch dressing etc three you have to exercise at LEAST 3 days a week..dont eat after 7 pm make sure you eat breakfast (breakfast will get your metabolism going) stay away from food that has high fructose corn syrup, food that is chemically processed try to eat natural foods, eat lots of fish and chicken
All you have to do is to use up more calories than you take in. So, the more you eat the more you have to exercise. It really is that simple.





Forget all of these faddy diets - eat sensibly and take exercise - it really will work!
check this out


http://wap33.blogspot.com/2008/09/want-f鈥?/a>

When do most people advise the best time to visit cayococo cuba our trip has just been cancelled ?

The best time would be when castro and castro have departed to stand trial for their crimes When do most people advise the best time to visit cayococo cuba our trip has just been cancelled ?
Your trip has just been cancelled because there has been a lot of damages throughout parts of Cuba. Cayo Coco is not part of the mainland and is connected via a causeway to Ciego de Avila. If there has been a need for repairs at hotels or roadways that would make travelling through Cuba difficult, then that could be the reason. It was a strange year for hurricanes and Cuba was hit badly this year.





I have just tried contacting friends that work at one of the resorts' offices in Cayo Coco as I have been having problems getting through on the phone with my friends there. Hopefully they will be able to communicate soon enough. Although I'm not too sure as there may be problems getting in to work right away.


Cuba is beautiful this time of year and most do not experience such severe weather. This has been unfortunate this year.


Hopefully this will not deter you from visiting Cuba after things clear up.





But one thing is that Cubans are resourceful and are quick to remedy the situations. Most likely the issue has been with flooding as the resorts in Cayo Coco/Guillermo are of course right on the ocean...but again, this isn't something that happens frequently if at all in that area.





*edit: here is some information:


http://www.tripadvisor.com/ShowTopic-g58鈥?/a>





nobody was hurt and there wasn't that much damage to the hotels...but water and amenities would be affected.When do most people advise the best time to visit cayococo cuba our trip has just been cancelled ?
June to November is the Hurricane season so times out of that season are OK. I have been in June, July, and September but I think we were just lucky.
February is the best time of year to go.. it is still hot but it is nowhere near hurricane season. Don't worry i have been there in Feb... u will luv.
The best time to visit cayo coco is after fidel is below ground. Luckily it should not take too long
When were you due to fly out? Im going on the 17th September, maybe mine has been cancelled to...
when were you due to go. We are due to fly out on the 29th Sept for our honeymoon and staying at the melia las dunas trying to find out if there is any damage done to the hotel.
In my opinion pretty well any time, this year just by the luck or the unluck of the draw it's been such an active hurricane season. On your other post I showed the site below.

I am looking to inport goods from hong kong can anyone advise me in customs and vat rules?

Electrical goodsI am looking to inport goods from hong kong can anyone advise me in customs and vat rules?
Look up the Hong Kong Government official web site for a detailed view:





http://www.customs.gov.hk/eng/content_e.鈥?/a>I am looking to inport goods from hong kong can anyone advise me in customs and vat rules?
I don't know what country you live in, but in the US there are companies called customs brokers who are specialists and expediters in importing goods. I'm sure there are similar companies in your country who would be the best people to contact for advice. Good luck.
No export tax or vat. In general, you need to pay a small fee for declaration of exporting. Fees various. For example, if you export by container, the fee is less than USD15. (This is not a tax, so it is not related to the value of the goods inside the container). So this fee is so small that you put it as part of the freight charge.
From HK to where? You'll pay no duties %26amp; taxes to get your goods out (only the shipping related charges) but you'll have to pay where you recieve the goods. SO, the question is what country are you importing to? Contact your local customs house with a pro-forma invoice listing the items you want to import and the costs fo the goods:so they can calculate your duties %26amp; taxes and moreover to see if they are legal to import!
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  • Please can I get advise on primary school teaching?

    I want to apply to uni to study primary school teaching next year. I have been trying to find out what I need to do and am finding the whole thing very confusing!





    I want to study it as distance learning as I am 26 and need to work full time to pay rent etc. I wanted to do it through the Open Unversity but they don't offer that degree. Is there any way I can do it mostly from home? How does the whole process work? Please can someone help before I ull all my hair out!! ;-) Thanks! x xPlease can I get advise on primary school teaching?
    Hiyas!


    The thing with primary school teaching, as I noticed some of the others have mentioned, is that it is very hands-on oriented. I know now a days you can take a good bulk of the classes online until you hit the point where you are focusing strictly on your major (Junior and Senior year).


    I got through my degree (elementary ed) by pulling a lot of loans and scholarships. I lived off campus, paid rent + utilities and worked on campus part-time for extra income. It was a bumpy couple of years, but I made more in 1 year teaching to cover the 5 yrs of cost going to college, so it's worth it in the end.


    Keep in mind with education, they will want you to do a lot of the stuff physically...like when you do your internships and field studies. If you wish to continue on in education after your undergrad, like I currently am, they really want to see how much actual experience you have...either from substituting, class requirements, student teaching, daycare help, etc. That might be hard for you to do with your current situation, but look at it as everything you do is resume worthy, and schools love seeing how much 'extra' you put in to get to where you are at.Please can I get advise on primary school teaching?
    This kind of degree doesn't work with on-line or at home programs. It is very hands on and discussion oriented. In my experience I had to give lots of presentations, complete many group projects, and things that I NEEDED to be in a classroom setting for. Additionally, you have to do a lot of classroom observations and student teaching internships.
    Well, here there is a program set up through the local community college that works with another university. The program is specifically for people in your situation. They have night classes and weekend classes. You should check with your surrounding schools to see if anything like this is available. The last semester is a practicum so you would have to do observations and student teaching in a school at that point.
    First things first, you need to go to your local community college to see an academic adviser. Usually they know exactly wht classes u need to take on the campus and others which you can take on line. Now, the things that need to be taken in the campus are like: group related / interaction with kids/ observation/presentations, most of the time these classes are taught in the morning hours. Others such as english,math, etc can be taken on-line. But go and call your adacemic adviser at your local comm. college and set an appointment ASAP so that you know first hand wht subjects require wht type of enviroment for teaching. Best of Luck

    Can anyone out there advise me about a man with cerebral palsy? His CP is considered mild.?

    He wants to date. I am 47 and he is 37. His parents are very overprotective and he is very impulsive and forgetful. But we have been dealing with it. I just don't know how it affects his mind. I don't know if he is set in his ways or will he ever get better.Can anyone out there advise me about a man with cerebral palsy? His CP is considered mild.?
    Cerebral Palsy can improve but can never be fully cured. What kind of Mild CP does he have? How does it affect him(physically, mentally)?Can anyone out there advise me about a man with cerebral palsy? His CP is considered mild.?
    he is most likley set in his ways - but give it time - be friends %26amp; see where it goes

    I would like to know if i would be breaking the law by sunbathing naked in my back garden. Advise please.?

    I have a large hedge at one side of the garden and a high fence at the other. If i ask my neighbours if they mind me doing it then i suppose that would make them more likely to look over into my garden. Nakedness is our natural state and i have a sense of freedom being without clothing.I would like to know if i would be breaking the law by sunbathing naked in my back garden. Advise please.?
    No it's not as it isn't a public place. Obviously if they do catch a glimpse of you they may be offended but there isn't nothing illegal about it.





    And all the people saying if someone sees you its indecent exposure you are all wrong indecent exposure is when you are in a public place and your intentions are for people to see you.I would like to know if i would be breaking the law by sunbathing naked in my back garden. Advise please.?
    Ask at your local police stationwhat would happen , if children were to see you from their bedroom window

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    No problem if you are not overlooked by anyone. In your case, i'm not too sure. Legally, if there is any possibiity of someone seeing you naked, you are at risk of being charged for inappropriate behaviour. and you may incur a penalty. The thing is that your views, however sincere, may not be acceptable in law...
    you can always call your local desk sargent or next time you see a cop ask them they are the best to tell you and if it is your yard and your yard is not in public view due to the hedge and fence i say you should be fine and you do not need to tell your neighbors but if they have children it is a respect thing and i would
    i think it deps on your states laws but if you have privacy hedges %26amp; a high fence up i think its legal. now see if the ppl next door happen to peer into your yard they are invading your privacy. there are actually laws against that! lol


    if need be just call the local police station and they can tell you. i see no problem in it personally %26amp; agree it is natural. heck i was just talking about this the other night to my husband =)
    well if you are thinking of sunbathing naked in your back garden...there is absolutely no problems with that. let me ask you one thing..would you roam naked in your house with all the curtains and blinds open. just be careful if you have any children around your neighbourhood..coz if they see you naked and if their parents found out..you can be in lot of trouble. my honest advise to you is dont do it.
    It really depends on your local laws. Your best bet would be to inquire with a local law enforcement officer.





    Generally speaking, as long your not plainly visible, and someone must ';go to the trouble'; to have to see you, then you are not breaking the law.
    There is no law against nudity in the UK.


    There are other things that the law could get you on but if you are taking the necessary steps that the general public would not be offended then there is nothing they can do.
    No of course not, your land, your sunbathing, go for it. Don't feel shy let it all hang out, at the end of the day it is their fault for looking, you don't force them to look at your balls.
    No you just can't be naked in public except in a changing rooms/public shower or nudist beach etc. Your house isn't public and it's your neighbours fault if they look over and they shouldn't be so nosey.
    If you don't mind their looking, and they don't mind their looking, it's not a problem.
    probably not





    I say go for it (Y)
    I don't think it's illegal.
    If your neighbours can see you from an up stairs window it classed as its indecent exposure .And if children can see you ,you would be in serious trouble.How would you like it if you had children looking out of their bedroom window only to see an old man sunbathing naked.


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    If you take notice of this uninformed lot you will get in trouble.
    yes - its indecent exposure - you maybe doing it in your backgarden but its in public - and classed as such

    I Need help or advise house breaking a male miniature Daschund, who is 7 months old. Any Ideas?

    We have serious issues with trying to house break a 7 month old Daschund. We have him on routine potty breaks outside; which most of the time will not go - he wait's until he get's back in the house, even after a 30 minute trip outside. I spend more time on my knee's cleaning up urine stain's from the carpet, and picking up poop than I do running after our 2 1/2 year old grandson. I have tried ';Matching'; him and that has worked in the past, but didn't do a thing to ';train'; him to go outside. I have resorted to putting down puppy training pads in the house. I really need to get a handle on this, we or I cannot continue to deal with the potty issue's. Please I need serious advice or tips to get a handle on this.. Please. Thank youI Need help or advise house breaking a male miniature Daschund, who is 7 months old. Any Ideas?
    As a dachshund breeder, I think I can help. Since the pup is still only 7 months old, start crate training. I only use the peepee pads when the pups are really young..





    Once you bring the pup back in the house, immediately put him in the crate and leave him there. Take him back out (carry, don't let him walk) to go potty after an hour. Crate him again and he will get the idea. Just keep up on the new routine and he will figure out that only going outside is the way to do things.





    Also, only feed him twice a day. He will need to go 20-30 minutes after eating.





    If you need more help, just email me.





    ps-if its a short hair you might have more problems than having a long hair.I Need help or advise house breaking a male miniature Daschund, who is 7 months old. Any Ideas?
    Excuse the typing I mean he is leash trained. If I start crate training now, will he suffer with the crying and begging for very long?

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    is he neutered???? crate train him...it;s the BEST way to housebreak,putting down puppy pads tells him it's ok to go in the house....very bad idea


    in the crate, ouy every 2 hours if he potty's give praise %26amp; play time , if nothing in 20 min...back in the crate, in about 3 or 4 days he'll figure it out.....good luck
    dachshunds can be pretty stubborn when it comes to house breaking.


    Crate training worked great for me with my dachshund, here's a link, and you can check online for more.


    http://www.hsus.org/pets/pet_care/our_pe鈥?/a>


    Good luck, I know it can be frustrating, but it can be done!
    Get a leash that you can easily put around your waist then you can keep him near you at all times. every hour take him out and when he does ';go'; praise him and have a special pee word that you say while hes peeing.





    Good Luck!
    if you see him peeing in the house say ';no'; sharply. and if you bring him out and he actually goes. give him a big treat and a lot of praise.
    Perhaps you should invest in a crate. Punishing a puppy after the deed has already been done in the house does not work - he will not understand that you are punishing him for going in the house and will probably think you are punishing him for going at all.





    Crate training means if he doesn't hold it, he will be going to the bathroom in the place that he is sleeping. Get a crate that is big enough for him, but not too big, because if he goes in the corner of the crate and is able to avoid it then you're not solving the problem.





    Perhaps his control isn't where it should be, yet, because he is still young. I say do the crate idea, expect accidents, and hopefully it will get better with time.
    Keep him on a schedule. Don't stay outside for so long. Instead, stay outside for fifteen minutes. If he doesn't go, bring him inside and keep him in your eyesight. If you keep him in your eyesight you can catch him in the act if he tries to go potty inside. Fifteen minutes later, try again. Do this until he goes potty. If he goes inside, make sure to clean the spot up really, really well so he can't sniff it out later. Have you tried crate training? Walks are also another way for him to get out and go potty, he'll want to mark his territory.
    The first step is to get rid of the puppy pads - they'll just confuse him.





    You'll need to start back at square one.





    1. Take him out at least every two-three hours until he's housetrained - don't give him a chance to eliminate inside.





    2. Don't spend half an hour outside - spend five minutes. Stand in one place in your yard (he needs to be on a leash) and let him circle around you.





    3. If he doesn't go, no worries, just pop him back in his crate (more on this later) and try again in half an hour. He needs to learn that going potty outside is a fast business.





    4. If he does go, make it a party. Praise him big, give him a treat or two (or three), and take him on at least a short walk before going back inside.





    5. If you catch him making a mistake in the house, grab a newspaper, roll it up tight, and smack yourself in the head. You should have either took him out earlier, or watched him more closely. Just quietly clean it up - don't scold or punish him. Punishment will only:





    1. Make him distrust or dislike you.


    2. Teach him that it's okay to eliminate when you're not watching. If he hides to eliminate somewhere in your house, you won't yell at him.


    3. Make him nervous about eliminating in front of you, whether it's inside or out.





    6. Crate-training is a must for housetraining. A dog will not eliminate in a crate if crate-trained - he sees it as his den. A crate lets you decide when he needs to go out, and keeps him from making a mistake (or getting into mischief) when you can't watch him.





    7. Remember, be patient. It can take up to a year to housetrain smaller dogs.





    Good luck!

    Please read scenario and advise.......Am I entitled to a redundancy payment? What are my options?

    I have been with my employers since January 2004. I began in the call centre and was there for 18 months before securing a role in another department on a 6 month secondment.





    After the 6 months expired, it was extended for another 6 months after which I was told that due to structural reorganisation, my secondment would be like a ';running contract'; - they will keep me on the team for as long as they can but I could risk going back to the call centre at any time.


    After which I applied and got a higher role in the same department - again on a 6 month secondment.





    I have just found out today that my team is being made redundant. I've been told that my job is safe but I risk going back to the call centre if I am unsuccessful in applying for the vacancies created by the company reshuffle. The team will be defunct and my colleagues will receive redundancy payments if they are unsuccesful/or choose not to apply for these vacancies.





    Am I entitled to redundancy? What are my options?Please read scenario and advise.......Am I entitled to a redundancy payment? What are my options?
    If you are in the UK the answer is as follows:





    Youa re legally redundant if your job disappears, or the need for the type of work you do diminishes or your company relocates and you do not have a contractual mobility clause.





    The company is obliged to consult you before selecting you for, or making you, redundant. They are obliged to consider suitable alternative positions in the company.





    If they do not do these things, you are unfairly dismissed.





    On the facts you have outlined, you are entitled to redundancy - unless you are re-assigned to the call centre.


    Your options are governed by whether you wish to stay and be re-assigned, or take the redudancy pay and move elsewhere.





    Hope this helpsPlease read scenario and advise.......Am I entitled to a redundancy payment? What are my options?
    I don't think you will as they are going to put you back in another area of the company.





    Best join a union and get then to look at the paperwork etc. GMB is very good.

    I want to go to Guilin, China from Hong Kong. Any advise?

    I know how to get there and I already have a visa. I was just wondering if anyone has any recommendations. I also might want to go to Yangshuo while I am there. Is anyone willing to share any advise or experiences?I want to go to Guilin, China from Hong Kong. Any advise?
    All the above advice is good about Yangshuo, it is in a beautiful part of China with great scenery. Yangshuo is very much a tourist town and you can get western food and see foreigners all over the town. The pleasure of Yangshuo is to get out of the town, so rent a bicycle and go out to the countryside.





    When you get tired of Yangshuo, take a bus south to LiPu. LiPu is in the same beautiful landscape but it is Chinese. You will see no western faces here, no western food, no KFC or MacDonalds. Prices are cheaper and you can rent a bicycle and go out to the countryside where people will invite you to have lunch with them. The Golden Dragon hotel is excellent and cheap.I want to go to Guilin, China from Hong Kong. Any advise?
    There is no point in going to Guilin without visiting Yangshuo. There isn't much to see in Guilin city. Get to Yangshuo. It is a bit touristy but the scenery is beautiful. Hire a bike and get out of town.





    To get to Yangshuo head for Guilin Railway Station. Buses leave every few minutes. When you arrive in Yangshuo have a walk around there are hotels to suit every budget.
    Guilin is ok for an afternoon, visit the Elephant Trunk, 7 Star Park and then move to Yangshuo, Spend a couple of days here, the minimum you should do is:


    - raft on the Yulong river (near Moonhill), bring bicycle on the raft and cycle back


    - Visit Xingping in the morning. Best to do is get a boat early morning (leave Yangshuo at 6, see website) and arrive at about 8 in Xingping, it's the best time of the day (forget the river cruise, this is MUCH better)


    - see the Liu Sanjie Lightshow at night, I was reluctant the first time but it's worth every yuen,


    - eat at Cloud 9 at least once





    There's much more, see the website below. is a good guide.
    I had stayed in Yangsuo around 4 months.


    as you know,Yangsuo is very beautiful.





    if you want a cheap trip,I tell you a way.





    There are some English training schools in Yangsuo . if you could speak english , you could be a volunteer of one of school.


    They will support you lunch %26amp; dinner %26amp; room. for interchanging


    you have to join the english corner of the school to chat with some


    english learners. if you wanted to know some chinese culture,I think that is helpful to you.





    and there are few thieves in Yangsuo.





    Take care of your purse.^_^


    if you wanted to know more,added my skype number:


    nick.zhuoyue
    Fly there with Dragonair. They have the best service compared to other Chinese airlines.





    Regarding Yangshuo, its a nice place, with many shops and a quite different aura compared to Guilin.
    Take a flight from Hong Kong to Guilin, and then take a Li River Cruise to Yangshuo. It is the best way to enjoy the scenery of Yangshuo and Li River.


    Here is the Guilin travel guide:


    http://www.chinatravel.com/guangxi/guili鈥?/a>
    You can take a Li River Cruise from Guilin to Yangshuo. Almost every travelers in Guilin do that.
    Just a few pictures from Guilin and Yangshuo:





    http://www.willgoto.com/1/143775/liens.a鈥?/a>
    Good question. I'm actually gonna leave from Guilin/Yangshuo to Hong Kong (later this summer) and I plan to take a train because it's not that far. and it's cheap.
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  • I am 35 yrs old woman, having premature hair fall. Pls advise how to stop hair fall and regrow hair.?

    I have been noticing that my hair on top portion of my head is slowly becoming bald and density of hair is reducing day by day. I was a non vegetarian and I have slowly reduced my non veg food and more into vegetarian food. Please advise what should I do to recover from this problem.I am 35 yrs old woman, having premature hair fall. Pls advise how to stop hair fall and regrow hair.?
    YOU NEED A LOT OF PROTEIN IN YOUR DIET- AND THE MOST YOU GET FROM MEAT AND EGGS. SO DON'T GIVE UP THE MEAT- IT WILL ONLY MAKE YOUR HAIR AND NAILS WORSE. PROTEINS YOU CAN ALSO GET FROM BEANS, PEAS, LENTIL, NUTS, BUT THEY ARE A LOT LESS THERE.


    NEXT THING TO DO- GET SOME PURE COLD-PRESSED ALMOND OIL FROM THE PHARMACY. EACH TIME BEFORE WASHING YOUR HAIR, APPLY IT IN YOUR ROOTS AND SCALP BY GENTLE MASSAGING, ESPECIALLY ON PARTS OF YOUR HAIR THAT IS GETTING THINNER. THEN COVER YOUR HEAD(IF U HAVE TIME ) WITH A NYLON(PLASTIC)BAG AND WRAP A TOWEL TO KEEP THE WARMTH AND MOISTURE IN. STAY LIKE THAT FOR AT LEAST 30 MINUTES. THEN WASH YOUR HAIR LIKE USUAL, PUT CONDITIONER OR A MASK. THE LAST RINSE OF YOUR HAIR SHOULD BE WITH A LITRE OF WATER WITH TWO TBSP OF VINEGAR(APPLE-SIDER THE BEST, BUT ANY WOULD DO). IT TAKES OFF ALL THE LEFTS OF SHAMPOO, CONDITIONER AND OTHER PRODUCTS THAT CAN AFFECT THE HEALTH OF YOUR HAIR. IT NEUTRALISES THEM.


    YOU HAVE TO BE PERSISTENT AND THE RESULTS WON'T BE LATE. ALMOND OIL IS THE STRONGEST NATURAL STIMULANT FOR GROWING OF NEW HAIR AND STOPPING HAIR-LOSS. IT SAVED ME FROM GOING COMPLETELY BALD IN THE FRONT. IT TOOK ME 3 MONTHS, BUT IT WORKED. I TOLD AT LEAST 8 WOMEN, IT WORKED FOR THEM ALL.I am 35 yrs old woman, having premature hair fall. Pls advise how to stop hair fall and regrow hair.?
    Falling hair can also be caused by emotional stress. Try some meditation. It'll not only help to relax but also gives you inner peace as well. In addition, a good hair tonic would help too. Extra-Virgin Coconut Oil is also good! Apply it regularly to your scalp before you shampoo. Either leave it overnight or at least half an hour. The longer the better. Lastly, ensure you take nutritional supplements eg multi-vitamins and anti-oxidants regularly as well.





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    This sound serious, please go to a doctor.

    Please can I get advise on primary school teaching?

    I want to apply to uni to study primary school teaching next year. I have been trying to find out what I need to do and am finding the whole thing very confusing!





    I want to study it as distance learning as I am 26 and need to work full time to pay rent etc. I wanted to do it through the Open Unversity but they don't offer that degree. Is there any way I can do it mostly from home? How does the whole process work? Please can someone help before I all all my hair out!! ;-) Thanks! x xPlease can I get advise on primary school teaching?
    You can probably get some of your GEC classes online. The education classes are much more hands on and will require you attend class. Also, you will need a certain number of field hours, impossible to do online. You can apply as undecided and take the initial classes.





    Good luck!Please can I get advise on primary school teaching?
    You may be able to take some course work on line, but you will definitely be spending most of the time in classes. Working full time is unrealistic. Teaching is tough, hard work. You will be mentally and physically exhausted after a day of teaching and course work.





    By the way, you need to brush up on your word usage; as a teacher you are expected to set a good example. Advise is not the same as advice. Look it up in the dictionary.
    You should do a search via Google. You'll get lots of information and you won't need to ask others to do it for you.
    You can't learn about teaching through distance learning. You have to do Clinical and Student Teaching with real students.
    I see you have been given some advice already, and someone has already pointed out your mistake re. the meaning of advise--you should correct it if you want people to think you're literate enough to become a teacher.





    The reason the Open U doesn't offer distance learning for teaching is that it's not the best way to learn how to teach. For most of your training, you are required to be present. You really need to do your own research to find out ';how the whole process works.';


    Here's the most logical site to try: www.teach.gov.uk





    Here's another link that discusses distance learning and mentions that a mature student can sometimes work as a teacher while going through training:





    http://www.internationalgraduate.net/ukt鈥?/a>





    Candidly, if you are tearing your hair out over a little bit of stress like researching teaching programs, you'll soon go completely bald as a teacher.

    I need advise to seduce my math teacher?

    I love my math teacher and i think he likes me if I ask for help he helps me, AND TODAY HE LENT ME A PENCIL!! THAT HE HAD TOUCHED!


    but the problem is that this little girl also likes him, but i know im his favourite =D any tips? like sexy underwearI need advise to seduce my math teacher?
    'I love my math teacher and I think he likes me.'





    Many schoolgirls have developed crushes on their favourite


    teachers. This kind of youthful infatuation hardly ever leads


    to a mutually enjoyable intimate relationship between the


    teacher and the girl after she's grown up into a woman.





    'If I ask for help he helps me.'





    That's just what he's supposed to do, what he's paid to do.


    Please don't assume that his professional relationship with


    you means that he has any interest in pursuing a romantic


    relationship with you now. If you believe otherwise, then you


    are almost certainly deceiving yourself about his motives.





    'I need advise (sic) to seduce my math teacher?'





    If you truly care for him, then you should do him and yourself


    a favour now by forgetting about any schemes to seduce him.


    You could still enjoy your secret fantasies of seducing him and


    becoming intimate with him as long as you keep your fantasies


    to yourself. You should not tell him now how you really feel.





    I suspect that you have developed strong feelings for your


    teacher, and you sincerely feel that you are in love with him.


    You are not the first schoolgirl who has dreamed of romance


    with her teacher. But you should understand there's a great


    difference between your fantasy of romance and the reality for


    a girl of developing her intimate relationship with an older man.


    Acting out a fantasy usually fails to live up to the fantasy itself.





    It would be unprofessional for a teacher to pursue a romantic


    relationship with his student, for which he could lose his job


    and be banned for life from finding another teaching job.


    If you are under the age of consent and you were to succeed


    in seducing your teacher, he could be convicted of statutory


    rape and face criminal punishment. Would your enjoying a


    passionate night with him in bed be worth doing that to his life?


    If you 'play with fire' too much, then you risk getting burned.





    If you truly love your teacher and are still interested in exploring


    a romance with him someday, then you should wait until you


    are no longer his student and have grown up (at least until you


    are of the age of consent). When you have become an adult,


    you could attempt to seduce him, you could consent to sexual


    intercourse with him, and, though some people would still


    disapprove of you, at least the law could not touch you or him.





    In a few cases, the story of a romance between a schoolgirl


    and her teacher has a happy ending. Will Durant, a 27 year


    old teacher, fell in love with Chaya Kaufman, his 14 year old


    student. They were married in 1913 (she was 15 years old),


    and their marriage lasted until their deaths in 1981.I need advise to seduce my math teacher?
    you really shouldn't be doing this. When you asked him for help and you said he helped you, well, that's what he's supposed to do as a teacher. When students need help, the teacher is expected to help. He lent you a pencil, that's normal. From what you've described, I don't see any evidence of him showing you that he feels the same way about you. He's just doing his job. If you were to attempt to seduce him, he'll reject you. Find someone else. You won't get anything out of it if you're trying to start something with him. You'll get him into serious trouble.
    do you realize the trouble you could get him into? This very thing happened to my English teacher and he hasn't recovered yet.





    He is smart, good-looking, and most of the time---intelligent. He slept with one of my classmates (the thought had gone through my mind SEVERAL times)...





    He lost:





    his career (football coach/ one of the decent educators in this country)


    his family (lovely wife and two adorable children)


    his freedom (imprisoned for three years, LIFETIME as a SEX OFFENDER, perpetual monitoring by the state parole board, among the many losses of freedom)


    his self-esteem and pride for giving into temptation





    This is what will most likely happen.





    I understand that the emotions you feel for him are strong. I can even believe that he returns your affection. If this is real....take a lesson from Persuasion and wait! If you can wait a few years, he could be all yours!!!!
    The advise is forget it. Move on. Back off. You are ';flirting'; with disaster!
    Ew, find someone your own age.

    In Jeddah where is the cheapest place to buy a 42 '; plasma TV? i prefer LG or Samsung please advise ?

    If you want to recommend another brand also ....In Jeddah where is the cheapest place to buy a 42 '; plasma TV? i prefer LG or Samsung please advise ?
    Extra, LG dealer, Samsung dealer, even places like Hyper Panda and Carrefour sell Televisions and some with good dealsIn Jeddah where is the cheapest place to buy a 42 '; plasma TV? i prefer LG or Samsung please advise ?
    extra will be the best place to buy. you might also want to see as my cooleague noted panda or carrefour as they sometimes have promotional offers for a very competitive price.


    forget about samsung, LG has the best ratings in terms of quality by the electronics magazines and experts.

    I need advise to seduce my math teacher?

    I love my math teacher and i think he likes me if I ask for help he helps me, AND TODAY HE LENT ME A PENCIL!! THAT HE HAD TOUCHED!


    but the problem is that this little girl also likes him, but i know im his favourite =D any tips? like sexy underwearI need advise to seduce my math teacher?
    'I love my math teacher and I think he likes me.'





    Many schoolgirls have developed crushes on their favourite


    teachers. This kind of youthful infatuation hardly ever leads


    to a mutually enjoyable intimate relationship between the


    teacher and the girl after she's grown up into a woman.





    'If I ask for help he helps me.'





    That's just what he's supposed to do, what he's paid to do.


    Please don't assume that his professional relationship with


    you means that he has any interest in pursuing a romantic


    relationship with you now. If you believe otherwise, then you


    are almost certainly deceiving yourself about his motives.





    'I need advise (sic) to seduce my math teacher?'





    If you truly care for him, then you should do him and yourself


    a favour now by forgetting about any schemes to seduce him.


    You could still enjoy your secret fantasies of seducing him and


    becoming intimate with him as long as you keep your fantasies


    to yourself. You should not tell him now how you really feel.





    I suspect that you have developed strong feelings for your


    teacher, and you sincerely feel that you are in love with him.


    You are not the first schoolgirl who has dreamed of romance


    with her teacher. But you should understand there's a great


    difference between your fantasy of romance and the reality for


    a girl of developing her intimate relationship with an older man.


    Acting out a fantasy usually fails to live up to the fantasy itself.





    It would be unprofessional for a teacher to pursue a romantic


    relationship with his student, for which he could lose his job


    and be banned for life from finding another teaching job.


    If you are under the age of consent and you were to succeed


    in seducing your teacher, he could be convicted of statutory


    rape and face criminal punishment. Would your enjoying a


    passionate night with him in bed be worth doing that to his life?


    If you 'play with fire' too much, then you risk getting burned.





    If you truly love your teacher and are still interested in exploring


    a romance with him someday, then you should wait until you


    are no longer his student and have grown up (at least until you


    are of the age of consent). When you have become an adult,


    you could attempt to seduce him, you could consent to sexual


    intercourse with him, and, though some people would still


    disapprove of you, at least the law could not touch you or him.





    In a few cases, the story of a romance between a schoolgirl


    and her teacher has a happy ending. Will Durant, a 27 year


    old teacher, fell in love with Chaya Kaufman, his 14 year old


    student. They were married in 1913 (she was 15 years old),


    and their marriage lasted until their deaths in 1981.I need advise to seduce my math teacher?
    you really shouldn't be doing this. When you asked him for help and you said he helped you, well, that's what he's supposed to do as a teacher. When students need help, the teacher is expected to help. He lent you a pencil, that's normal. From what you've described, I don't see any evidence of him showing you that he feels the same way about you. He's just doing his job. If you were to attempt to seduce him, he'll reject you. Find someone else. You won't get anything out of it if you're trying to start something with him. You'll get him into serious trouble.
    do you realize the trouble you could get him into? This very thing happened to my English teacher and he hasn't recovered yet.





    He is smart, good-looking, and most of the time---intelligent. He slept with one of my classmates (the thought had gone through my mind SEVERAL times)...





    He lost:





    his career (football coach/ one of the decent educators in this country)


    his family (lovely wife and two adorable children)


    his freedom (imprisoned for three years, LIFETIME as a SEX OFFENDER, perpetual monitoring by the state parole board, among the many losses of freedom)


    his self-esteem and pride for giving into temptation





    This is what will most likely happen.





    I understand that the emotions you feel for him are strong. I can even believe that he returns your affection. If this is real....take a lesson from Persuasion and wait! If you can wait a few years, he could be all yours!!!!
    The advise is forget it. Move on. Back off. You are ';flirting'; with disaster!
    Ew, find someone your own age.

    In Jeddah where is the cheapest place to buy a 42 '; plasma TV? i prefer LG or Samsung please advise ?

    If you want to recommend another brand also ....In Jeddah where is the cheapest place to buy a 42 '; plasma TV? i prefer LG or Samsung please advise ?
    Extra, LG dealer, Samsung dealer, even places like Hyper Panda and Carrefour sell Televisions and some with good dealsIn Jeddah where is the cheapest place to buy a 42 '; plasma TV? i prefer LG or Samsung please advise ?
    extra will be the best place to buy. you might also want to see as my cooleague noted panda or carrefour as they sometimes have promotional offers for a very competitive price.


    forget about samsung, LG has the best ratings in terms of quality by the electronics magazines and experts.


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  • Why does the Bible advise women to wear their hair in pigtails,and why don't women follow this command anymore?

    Chapter and verse please.


    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Why does the Bible advise women to wear their hair in pigtails,and why don't women follow this command anymore?
    1Ti 2:9 In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array;





    1Pe 3:3 Whose adorning let it not be that outward [adorning] of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel;Why does the Bible advise women to wear their hair in pigtails,and why don't women follow this command anymore?
    Huh?





    I am going to *assume* you are refering to this:





    1Peter 3:3Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as braided hair and the wearing of gold jewelry and fine clothes. 4Instead, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God's sight.
    I am pretty sure it was braids, and that was because that's how the prostitute's wore their hair. At least I heard that. But I know for sure it was also about how Your beauty should not be an external one, consisting of braided hair or the wearing of gold ornaments and dresses.
    where does it say that? and because there are women that dont follow Christianity and those who do follow Christianity and wear their hair any other way must think there are other things more important than their hair
    There's nowhere in the Bible that tells women to wear their hair in ';pigtails';.
    Selective reading.
    Pardon??
    Pigtails?....I doubt very seriously if pigtails was a term used back in those days......
    Read it again then come back, k thx bai
    i am a little lost. i have never seen that part in the bible before!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    where in the Bible does it say that?
    where does it say that

    Do anybody have any good ways to help start labour. any advise would be great thanks!?

    i know this sounds funny but rub your nipples with lotion..or have sex...best ways...happen to both of my girlfriends..good luck..Do anybody have any good ways to help start labour. any advise would be great thanks!?
    Sex worked for me. Good Luck.... Make sure that he ejaculates.Do anybody have any good ways to help start labour. any advise would be great thanks!?
    Doctors might not advise it, but I had a breast pump and pumped a little and had contractions within 24 hours and when I got checked I was 3 1/2 cm. My milk also came in really fast and in large amounts. And when you start to feel contractions, walk and walk and walk. and warm baths help regulate contractions. Good luck and congrats on you soon to be baby.
    Ask your doctor.
    sorry to say, but sex is one of the best labor inducers.
    sex but if the baby ain't ready it won't work
    well it depends on how far along you are whether it is safe to try and start labor, but here is what i did:


    1. go to the doctor about 2 weeks or less before your due, and have him move your water bag.. they adjust it so there is room for the baby to drop more and in some cases it helps induce labor (The doctor did that to me 1 week before my due date... I went into labor that night.)


    2. Having sex close to your due date can induce labor.


    3. go for long walks if you can... my sister went into labor in the middle of a 30 minute walk, it also helps the labor along once it's begun.


    4. Just wait! Trust me, even though you are ready for the baby to be out now, you need as much sleep and rest as you can get now, cuz you ain't gonna get much sleep or rest after it's born!!
    nipple stimulation with an electric breastpump this is how we do it in labor and delivery for women only wishing a natural birth trust me if anything works this will your body will secrete natural oxytocin as your stimilating your nipples this is what sends you into labor oxytocin. please only do it if your overdue though also you will probly get dim wits on here telling you to take castor oil please dont do that it can cause the baby to have a bowel movement hence going into distress and who knows what will happen after that possible feotel death goodluck to you.
    They say having intercourse helps. If you can handle that try it. I'm sure your husband won't argue.

    I need your advise on on line AA or Bachelor's degree from the University of Phoenix ?

    I want to start an online degree course with the University of Phoenix, can someone advise me if this would not be a waste of my time and money and if it really worth to spend money on. Please picture yourself in my position and give me a sincere advise.I need your advise on on line AA or Bachelor's degree from the University of Phoenix ?
    I have to disagree with some of the preceding comments. I took courses online from UoP until I could no longer afford them, and then I transferred to a public university (from which I am graduating in 9 days). The UoP curriculum for my area of study was much better than that of the public university. Of course, that experience may be due to the major itself (Information Technology). I can't swear to what other programs are like. So, like everything else, your mileage may vary.I need your advise on on line AA or Bachelor's degree from the University of Phoenix ?
    The U of Phoenix is so famous because they have an excellent marketing program, not because they are a good school. Don't confuse marketing fluff with quality.





    In general, as others have said, an online degree from a school without a strong brick and mortar reputation will only get you so far. If it's physically impossible for you to attend a university in person, then an online program may be your only option. In that case, in addition to U of Phoenix, I also ask that you consider online/distance learning programs from other schools which have better academic reputations - and there are plenty. One I've mentioned before, just as an example, is the University of Massachusetts at Amherst. They offer degrees online, and also have a strong offline reputation for academics.





    Then again, the school you pick is dependant on a lot of factors. But do keep in mind that what employers think afterwards does count. In general, a degree from U Phoenix, or Devry, or ITT Tech, may get you more than no degree at all. But if you're being compared against candidates with degrees from stronger schools, then...I'm sorry, but most employers do take that sort of thing into consideration.
    I'm a CPA and have hired/fired/supervised people for about 10 years. I wouldn't hire anyone with an online degree unless I knew them well, or they had lots of quality experience in the field.





    All in all, I personally think it would probably make you a stronger person to do it, but I wouldn't count on it helping you get a job in your field of study.
    I am not sure of your situation or physical location, but it would be MUCH better to get an AA from a local community college than pay WAY more to Phoenix...although an AA does not get you much respect in the workplace. As a matter of fact, a B.S. or B.A. are not nearly as respected as 20 years ago. Hang in there for a Masters...
    I know a lot of people who earned degrees with the University of Phoenix, and they are finding great jobs. In my area a University of Phoenix degree is just as good as from a ';traditional'; university.
    Well, I'm finishing my Masters Degree online but not from Phoenix University. I think that it must be a halfway decent school otherwise it wouldn't be so well known. You should get the Bachelor's. You can't really do much with just an A.A.

    My father passed away a week ago and I need to buy a black outfit, please can anyone advise me where to buy a ?

    nice outfit. I went to Macys and didnt find anything. I am really not feeling up to dragging myself from store to store. Even a black skirt, pants, sweater but nothing cheap like from Target etc thanks so muchMy father passed away a week ago and I need to buy a black outfit, please can anyone advise me where to buy a ?
    Womens


    http://www.dillards.com/endeca/EndecaSta鈥?/a>


    Juniors


    http://www.dillards.com/endeca/EndecaSta鈥?/a>My father passed away a week ago and I need to buy a black outfit, please can anyone advise me where to buy a ?
    I so sorry.





    are you junior size? if so Kohls has black pants.





    Brand names: My Michelle and T.B.A. The T.B.A. brand comes in different lengths too I think! There are plenty of black sweaters there in their junior department as well as black tops if you look in there dressy junior area (brand names of these are IZ Byer, Heart and Soul, or Wrapper). You could also get a black suit coat which they sell there by the brand name My Michelle. and then get a tank/cami to go underneath it.





    Otherwise Kohls has misses size black pants by the brand Apt. 9. And I am sure you will be able to find a black top in the Apt. 9 brand as well or possibly by Elle or Daisy Fuentes.





    Hope this helps. I am a manager @ my kohls and so I know the merchandise really well! :)
    I'm not very good with clothes advice but I did want to tell you that I am very sorry for your loss. Why not try TJ Maxx, Ross or something similar that you can find something nice for a decent price. Take care and God bless.
    I'm sorry for your loss.





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    I have got osteopenia at the age of 33 please advise me?

    yesterday I went for a routine health checkup, they did bone density test as a part of other check ups. I found to be the patient of low bone density.My T score was -2.2.I am tensed.please advise me what should i do?I have got osteopenia at the age of 33 please advise me?
    Why didn't you ask the doctor who did a checkup for you?

    I have just bought my first house and need some advise!!!!(decorating)?

    Firstly~ Whats the easiest way to strip paint from doors and floors?


    thanks!I have just bought my first house and need some advise!!!!(decorating)?
    For your doors you can get a heat gun or a paint stripper(nitro moors) For your floors you are better hireing a machine from your hire shop. Good Luck.
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  • Can someone please advise me on how I can circumcise myself?

    Don;t be foolish. If you do something wrong, the infection and ER visit would cost more than getting it done professionally.





    the larger question is why do you think you need to snip yourself now?Can someone please advise me on how I can circumcise myself?
    I could, BUT I WON'T! You shouldn't even be considering such a thing! I can't understand why you would, since there is no reason you should. Nature provided you with what you have and it would be against nature and good sense to do so. Just make sure you are able to peal the skin back and keep it clean. Removing the extra skin is going to affect the sensitivity you now have. But if there is a legitimate reason for circumcision, then by all means see a qualified physician, don't even think of doing your self and hurting your self and suffer disfigurement or harm to your God given body!Can someone please advise me on how I can circumcise myself?
    Yeah, should have had it done when you were born. If you make a mistake, the damage could be permanent.


    Dont do it by yourself.


    Go to the professionals.


    P.S. It hurts really really bad.


    Thats why they do it when your a baby


    YOU DONT REMEBER THE EXCRUCIATING PAIN.
    wow...Don't even consider it. You run the risk of serious infection, possibly gangrene and very truthfully the possibility of your penis having to be removed because of infection.


    Circumcision is a bad idea for so many reasons let alone doing it yourself!
    You can't do it yourself. And I hope you aren't stupid enough to do it.





    -Connor
    maybe lobotomise is the correct word.
    Why?! Ask the Bobbit lady from a few years ago, she'll tell you.
    Dont try mate...You would seriolsy injure your little friend down there.



    LMAO





    sorry .. scissors and tissue paper and a jar labeled 'the top of my penis'
    Just hav a doctor do it.
    You don't
    You are kidding, right?



    go see a doctor you dolt
    cut the whole thing off
    dont be an idiot. cough up 600 and have a proffesional do it
    dont you must be mad or what?
    u an idiot or what. don't even think of such kind of thing.

    Anal sex any advise on getting it in?

    My husband and i have tried it several times however he cant fit, get the picture i dont need to go into the details, each time he wore a condoma nd had large amounts of lube on. I dont want to streatch myself at all so anyone have a serious solution or some special type of lube because weve tried alot.Anal sex any advise on getting it in?
    You just got to take it, yea it sucks cuz it will hurt at first then it will start to feel good.





    Or u can get a little buzzed so u will be less nervous and u wont feel it so much





    lots of lube i mean lots !Anal sex any advise on getting it in?
    Hey, Well the most important thing is for that you are relaxed.....!!! Now it isn't really the fact that you stretch yourself there it is more of getting used to the feeling and used to something being there!





    The first thing to do is get a few things first get a enema, latex gloves, and there is a lube called anal ease, now the lube will basically relax the anus and allow it to open more freely. The enema will insure that there is nothing there thus removing a possible mental block ok, have your husband use the latex glove and the anal ease to slowly stimulate and penetrate the anus. After a few minutes of playing when you get ready to try to insert his penis Again, remember to relax use the lube like before on the condom and on the anus with the anal ease, as the anal ease really doesn't provide that much lube. Now when you feel the head of his penis on your anus, slowly start to push out as if you are..... well I hope you get the idea. Once inside tell your hubby to take is slow and allow you time to get used to it ok..... Hope this one helps.
    I have a very thick tool and my wife is a very petite woman. It took me about a year to finally get it in. I kept working on it, using fingers, sex toys, vibrators, etc until she finally became stretched enough and comfortable. It did hurt the first SEVERAL times (maybe even 6-8 times). Eventually her anus became bigger and stretched enough to accommodate my penis. So size really isn't the issue, it's time, willingness, and patience!
    Just a thought, look at the size of your stool.





    You normally stretch to about that size anyways.





    If hes above average girth and you don't want to stretch, there isn't much more to be said.





    No amount of lube will make him any smaller or you any bigger.














    You can try to relax, have him use smaller toys, work his way up to larger objects and himself.





    But again, if you are worried about stretching, then don't do it.
    The only thing that is more important than lube is for you to be completely relaxed.


    Focus on that area and focus on relaxing it first, then your whole body. It sometimes hurts a little to begin with, but make sure he goes really slowly and that you trust him to stop and wait whenever you tell him to while he is going in.


    When he is in tell him to stay still for a little while until you feel things relaxing into place then go gently.


    Enjoy.





    - Hey, whats with the thumbs down? My hubby and I enjoy it occasionally and this is what has worked very well for us. Open your minds people!!
    Weird Question But Here's The Answer Coming From The Males Side. Me and my girlfriend have done this only a couple of times she not a fan. I'm 18 and Shes 20 been together 4and1/2 years. What You Need To Do Is Start Just With Sex and While Your Having Sex Before You Plan The Anal Sex He Needs To Use His Fingers First To Get You Motivated Then When The Time Comes You'll Be Ready And You Prob Wont Need Any Lube.
    start very slowly and work your way up to it. start out just by using one finger (or have him use a finger on you)... wait until you're used to it, then try moving up to two fingers. you could also try using a sex toy if you have one... you need to work your way up to being ready for something larger.





    it's not about ';stretching yourself';, it all goes back to normal afterwards, doing this just loosens you temporarily
    You need to rub your clit while he starts and you also need to push like you are doing #2 (which you should have taken care of ahead of time right?) that will help you relax your sphincter and get it in there. Once he pops the head in and gives you a bit to adjust its all good.
    that sh** is gonna hurt but its not gonna slip in like regular sex he's gotta be hard on u and shove it in there! U may have trouble pooping afterwards and all that bad things!


    Good luck though!


    Use a lot of lubricants!!!
    I say: just take it like a woman and shove it in there.
    don't. obviously it was not meant to go in.
    this is wrong and an abomination

    95 Accord: A/C works, defrosters work, but the heater will not blow hot air. Please advise prob & solution.?

    Will I need a costly mechanic or is this something I could fix myself. No noise coming from car that is unusual. Getting chilly here in Virginia hope someone can help. Kids might get mad if they have no presents, but at least the car heater works! lol95 Accord: A/C works, defrosters work, but the heater will not blow hot air. Please advise prob %26amp; solution.?
    it's very common for the heater control valve to freeze, stick or lock in the closed position, it's controlled by a cable from the temp knob and often the knob itself will break and not turn the temp selector due to the stuck heater control valve. first pull the knob off the temp selector and check to see if it's broken and not able to turn the switch, if so, replace the knob and check to see if the selector turns easily, if it binds or is hard to turn the heater valve is probably stuck and you will need to take it to a mechanic as it's a fairly difficult job.95 Accord: A/C works, defrosters work, but the heater will not blow hot air. Please advise prob %26amp; solution.?
    I had the car fixed. The actual temp knob on the dash was stripped. So when I turned to hot or cold the knob was not gripping, but just going through the motion. $10 fixed the problem!

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    Sounds like your heater core is plugged. It'll need to be replaced.
    The cable that actuates the air flap inside the heater box may be worn.





    Look underneath the dash on the passenger side of the car. Turn the temperature selector back and forth while looking underneath the dash to find the little arm that is moving. Notice the direction that it moves when you select hotter air. After turning it to maximum heat, move the arm with your hand to see if it moves anymore.





    Not sure on the fix, but problem is caused by worn components. Not sure if the cable mounts have come loose and the cable has slid in its mounts.
    lol i left my truck at shop //no heat but mechanic couldent look at it because of all the inspections people didnt get on time...i live in SW virginia....cold today

    I'm interested in starting a small business any advise?

    i am a young professional woman and i am seriously considering starting a small business preferably a small night club in the down town cleveland area does anybody have any usefull tips or advise on how i would go about this





    thankyou all so much in advance!I'm interested in starting a small business any advise?
    Whatever type of business you start, don't make the mistake of being undercapitalised: in other words, don't start until you have sufficient funds to cover your expenses in setting up the business.





    Before you even start, though, you need to assess the market for whatever you propose to sell: if the market is already crowded with similar businesses, you have a low chance of success. Also, if there are not sufficient customers with the inclination and the cash to patronise your establishment, you won't succeed either.





    Remember that the majority of new businesses fail in the first year, and that if you go bankrupt it will be harder to get finance to start another business in future. Those that fail do so mostly because they are poorly planned and are undercapitalised.





    Also, be realistic: make a list of the equipment and staff you need to get started, and make realistic assessments of what each item on the list will cost, not excluding anything such as insurance. Then add 10% for inflation and unforeseen price/wage increases.





    Write a detailed business plan and show it to a bank manager or a successful business owner for their opinion. (But make sure they are not potential business rivals.)





    Employ a qualified, reputable accountant who is NOT RELATED to you to keep your accounts.





    Don't expect to make a profit in the first year of operation, and be prepared to work your tail off!!!





    Good luck - I hope you will be successful.








    EDIT: a couple of things I forgot to mention:


    1. if you buy an existing business, make sure you don't buy a mess of debts as well. Closely inspect the premises and equipment, and get the books checked by your accountant, before you sign.


    2. If you contemplate having a business partner, do a criminal check on him/her first, and as far as possible check out their previous level of success in business.


    3. Make sure you know what your legal liabilities are to local, state and federal governments, such as licensing, registering your business name, paying employees' entitlements, and workers' compensation insurance, etc.I'm interested in starting a small business any advise?
    You're entirely welcome, and I wish you the very best of luck!

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    It does depend state to state. You'll need a place, You may need a small business license/certificate (or something like that) if you plan of serving alochol, you'll need a liqour license, lights, sound equipment. In order to accept money, you may need some sort of license.


    Maybe there's something on the internet, like how to start a business, or how to open a night club. Is there anyone in your county that would be able to help? Or state? Good luck!!


    ~Leah

    Any ';Illegal alien'; college graduate out there who can advise me?

    How did you manage to pay for college?


    Any other details I might want to know?Any ';Illegal alien'; college graduate out there who can advise me?
    Arrest them all.


    They are breaking the law.


    What is it about illegal, you don't understand?

    Getting induced at 4:30 am, any words of advise this is my first baby?

    just relax and dont eat alot before giving birth because you will regret it later just because you are being induced at 4:30 get all the rest you can because you still have along way 2 go!Getting induced at 4:30 am, any words of advise this is my first baby?
    I was induced..it was my first. Everyone says it hurts more but since i had nothing to compare with i do not know. I was induced at 8 in the evening the contractions started at 11pm..real pain started around 12am. I gave birth at a baby boy at 4.19am so about 4 hrs of strong pain. First hr i just had gas and air and then a pain relief injection. Did not want the epidural. When the time came to push it was such a relief..I loved pushing because by that time there was not pain just an urgent need to push. My advise is try and listen to the midwife/doctor. if they tell you to stop pushing then try to stop as there is a period that you should not push so as not to tear. Keep breathing, scream and holer if you want to and remeber that soon you will have a gorgeous new life in your arms..Good luck and god blessGetting induced at 4:30 am, any words of advise this is my first baby?
    Okay, keep in mind labor will be ALL worth it in the end. Its going to hurt a bit more since it is being induced. Breathe, relax and take deep breaths. No one can really prepare you for what is about to happen. It is such a life altering thing. I remember being completely shell shocked after and the first thing I said after giving birth was ';well, THAT was quite an experience'; also pushing dosent come naturally to some women, just push like you need to poo.





    Good luck and congrats momma!!
    Hi, I wouldn't say that labor will probably be hard...but if you had birthing classes please remember to breath...Just relax as much as you can. I was induced and was in labor all nite, not hard though contractions never got really bad. Ended up having a c-sect though anyway. Good luck and congrats!!
    EAT. You will burn 1000's of calories during labor and delivery and it's total BS that hospital policy (usually) is no food. Your body needs fuel to have this baby.





    So if that is your hospital policy, eat a big breakfast before you head there.
    OMG can I get induced now!





    Labour will probably be harder, more outrageous because it's being induced.





    But, I'm excited for you. Your baby will be here hopefully within 24 hours :)





    Congrats momma!
    well congratulations!!! and don't tense up try to stay as calm as possible!! oh and i would recommend the epidural!


    xo take care and be blessed! %26lt;33
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  • NEED HELP/ ADVISE Any one in the field of Physical Therapy Assistant?

    Could you give me advice, tips, pros and cons of this job. I know it will take about 2 yrs of school, but how much would i be making once im out and working in the field.





    What does the job consist of. I know helping people do rehab and get better, but if you know more than me, can you give me more details.





    Thanks i appreciate it!NEED HELP/ ADVISE Any one in the field of Physical Therapy Assistant?
    Most PTAs make in the ball park of $30-$40,000 a year.





    The job consists of creating treatment programs once a physical therapist has determined what type of rehabilitative program a patient needs. For instance, a PT might evaluate a patient and determine that a patient with shoulder pain has an impingement syndrome...the PT may recommend inferior joint mobilization, iontophoresis and exercises to strengthen the rotator cuff. The PTA could perform the joint mobilization, apply the iontophoresis and teach the patient what exercises to do. The PTA is dependent on the assessment of the PT and cannot ';add'; extra treatments to the program without further assessment by the PT.





    Both PTs and PTAs can impliment treatment programs, but only the PT can complete assessments and recommend treatment.





    Good luck.

    How do you start over after eleven years of marriage. don't know where to begin. need advise!?

    Well, you can go to a marriage counselor to understand your role in the failed marriage, and to get rid of your ';baggage';. You can also take some time to ';find yourself'; and not rush into another relationship or do the ';rebound thing';. It may feel like the end of the world for you and for that I am sorry for you. However, it is not the end of the world, and everyday from now on will remove a little of the hurt and loss you feel until you are ';healed'; from this emotional setback in your life. One day, you will know when its time to find another mate. There is someone out there in that crazy world of ours that will be looking for you when the time is right. Good luck to you and keep your chin up.How do you start over after eleven years of marriage. don't know where to begin. need advise!?
    If you are not divorced but thinking about it,get counseling for your marriage first.If you are divorced and are angry or still love her .as the lady said above don't fish for another too soon .Rebounding is bad and it starts not with your new relationship but with sharring your baggage


    and a lot of intimate sharing of it.How do you start over after eleven years of marriage. don't know where to begin. need advise!?
    I did it after 24 yrs, so you can too.


    Focus on yourself--you probably gave too much in your marriage, now just enjoy!


    I read all the time, I only cooked if I WANTED to, and I got to choose christmas trees I WANTED to choose!


    I watched what I wanted on TV (I rarely turned it on), I enjoyed the silence and solitude, I stayed up as late as I wanted, or went to bed early...I bought what I wanted, and didn't have to debate it. I could wake up crabby, and be that way all damn day!





    Gosh, hon...you can do what YOU want, so love every day!


    God bless, %26amp; good luck!
    Try to connect with your friends, especially any that are still single. Start doing things for you, meaning go to the gym and get in better shape than you are - feel good about yourself. Invest $$$ into yourself. get some youth back. Moving back to the single life is a transition that will take time. I was in the same boat as you. You are starting fresh...maybe get a new wardrobe too.
    You begin with YOU! What do you want to do with your life? Where do you want to be? How do you want to spend your day? Now is the perfect time for YOU to focus on YOU! Get healthy, both physically and mentally, get happy within yourself, and get ready! Get ready for a whole world that's out there just waiting for you! Waiting for you to decide what you want it to be and ready to be exactly that! It's all about YOU now. Enjoy!
    you take a deep breath and take one step at a time. if you are ready to move on and live a little then tell family and friends. let them know you want to get out more. also tell them whether or not you are ready to date. people who are attached seem to think single people have a target on their backs and unless you are ready you need to let them know you don't want to be set up with anyone
    head to the nearest watering hole and get busy.





    Unless, you've gone blind in the past 11 years, you know what looks good. Start there. Find one that looks good and if she or he can carry a conversation or give good head, you're 1/2 way there.





    Enjoy yourself. Trial and Error should be a national pasttime.
    It's not easy, but it ain't over. There is actually plenty of woman out there that still now how to be woman. As for the rest well just use and abuse. Eventually a keeper will come around. Then respect, Love, and cherish.
    start over? are you still with your wife or are you now alone?
    the same way you found your last rommance, but don't compare to the last

    Out-of-State Employment. 10 points for the best advise. Thank you?

    I am in Washington DC. I want to apply for a job in NYC. Are there any possible for the employment? How successful is it? I also am worried about interview process --Can I ask future employers for telephone interview?





    P.S. I have a MPA Degree, but I am not a native English speaker.





    Thank you.Out-of-State Employment. 10 points for the best advise. Thank you?
    Get an English speaker to help you write a clear, concise cover letter explaining that you're moving to the area and would like your initial interview to be over the phone if possible. Attach it with your resume and email or fax it to prospective employers.





    I wouldn't recommend working in customer service until you've finished learning the language. It may cause difficulties for both you and the company.Out-of-State Employment. 10 points for the best advise. Thank you?
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    Hi there! is there any1 out their that can advise me on quick waightloss? as i'm getting married in 3 months,

    i also have an underactive thoryid problem!Hi there! is there any1 out their that can advise me on quick waightloss? as i'm getting married in 3 months,
    Go on an all fruit no carbs diet for a week. Drink lots of water, no alcohol, no fizzies. Start to walk a mile a day for 3 days, increase to 2 then 3 and so on every 3 days.





    2nd week mix in loads of porridge and bran foods with honey and all the fruit. Keep extending the walking.





    3rd week repeat week 1





    4th week repeat week 2





    If you feel ill during this programme add some low fat yogurt etc to the diet





    eat 4 meals per day and no crisps etc at all





    No meat during 'odd number weeks'





    chicken and loads of oily fish on the even number weeks.





    Nuts etc from health shops, brazils, walnuts etc and raisins, etc for snacking. NO peanuts, salted or dry roasted. Any other nuts are fine. Keep the snacks varied.





    Drink 3 - 5 pints of water per day in small quantities and especially after walking.





    2nd month start adding light exercise in the house, sit ups etc to the routine. keep those muscles active throughout. SWIM at least 3 times per week. Start with 1 or 2 lengths at 25 mtrs and increase 1 length per week.Hi there! is there any1 out their that can advise me on quick waightloss? as i'm getting married in 3 months,
    See your doctor if you haven't already about the thyroid problem. If it is actually affecting your weight (hypoactive thyroid can case weight gain, if signifiant enough) then you should probably be on synthetic thyroid hormone replacement therapy.





    Do NOT abuse this in hopes of losing more weight ... hyperactive thyroid is a disease also and affects your health too. Reading about diabetic women skipping their insulin to lose weight (and discovering a few years later that their internal organs are fragile and decaying due to poorly controlled diabetes) was just... sad.
    my first 3 months of slimming world and i lost nearly 2 stone, and thats with not doing it 100%.
    let me show you what worked for me. Eat what you like. Just keep it to1200 calories a day (healthier is better obviously) and sweat and I mean SWEAT!! for 30-40 minutes a day 6-7 days a week. Remember the more you sweat the more you can add to your eating plan. Write down everything you eat with calorie content. This will give you an overall look at where you need to make changes. Don't eat after 6 pm ever. Don't cheat, you're only fooling yourself and don't skip workouts. You should be losing about between 2-3 pounds a week, which is a healthy rate without starving yourself...Good luck with your new life and lifestyle!
    I lost 1 and half stone in and month and a half by eating homemade vegetable soup, with brown nimble bread, living on eggs and very little potato products. also lots and lots of water with about 20 mins on exercise bike a day. xx
    try The Food Doctor written by Ian Marber or G Plan Diet - -excellent- sound common sense on healthy eating.

    Can u advise me with a very good movie editing software with a lot of features?

    some may advice you adobe primier but its very hard and complex and also very expensive.


    ulead video studio is the best with a wide selection of amazing options.


    good luck.Can u advise me with a very good movie editing software with a lot of features?
    Home Editing:


    Adobe Premiere Elements 2.0








    Professional Editing:


    Adobe Premiere Pro 2.0


    Adobe Premiere CS3Can u advise me with a very good movie editing software with a lot of features?
    Ulead VideoStudio X2 it say that it is Easy %26amp; Powerful Video Editing software
    I love cyberlink powerdirector, it is easy to use.

    Please advise how I can improve my time and lose weight as I've reached a bottle neck.?

    I am 77kg and need to be 74 for ideal BMI. Age 37


    Been running 5km 5 times a week in 25 min for last 3 mnths but can't improve weight and time.Please advise how I can improve my time and lose weight as I've reached a bottle neck.?
    Fartleks work wonders. Warm up run (5-10 min) followed by (1) 200m sprint, (2) 400m at 5k pace [repeat 6-10 times] then cool down.Please advise how I can improve my time and lose weight as I've reached a bottle neck.?
    for time, i would suggest a little bit of weight lifting. for weight, vary your routine. throw some longer runs in there
    Your body got too efficient at that running that it no longer really burns any weight. You have got to change what you are doing. Maybe instead do some sprinting workouts. Sine your average km is 5 minutes try a sprinting workout where you run a 1k in 4 minutes, then take a rest and try it again.
    drink more water...





    remember weight doesnt mean a thing since muscle weighs more than fat, its body shape and tone that matter in the long run
    Reaching for the bottle is never the answer, just think of the calories :P





    If you consume less energy than you use, you will lose weight.





    Exercise is the answer, as it suppresses appetite too :)
    Add ankle and wrist weights when you run. Start with only ankle and get used to that , then add wrist.





    First thing in morning drink this: squeeze juice of 1/2 lemon in 8 oz of warm water.





    Also drink green tea and no coffee. Green tea propells your metabolism and coffee slows it down.
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  • Why do people (doctors and complete strangers) advise one to drink a lot of fluids with a cold?

    Your body is at risk for dehydration due to the fluids lost with a cold.

    Just wondering if anyone can give me advise on Moroocon weddings?

    I'm Australian and I'm wanting to marry my boyfriend who is Moroccan.I plan to travel there soon but am a little worried about the whole situation.I have no idea what to expect.Just wondering if anyone can give me advise on Moroocon weddings?
    I got some great web sites for you, got a pencil?


    morocco.com/culture/weddings-customs


    worldweddingtraditions.com


    weddingguru.com


    world-weddings.net

    I used to be able to listen to the music I love,';Blues'; but now I can't find my station-Can you advise me? RF?

    What site do I need to go to, to listen to my music?I used to be able to listen to the music I love,';Blues'; but now I can't find my station-Can you advise me? RF?
    We have a station here in ol DC as in Washintooon DC...everyone is looney tunes to live here...but, location, location...anyway 98.3 on the fm band for nearly 30 years, non-commercial, listener supported and these guys and gals got it goin on when it comes to Blues. WPFWdot org will get you to their net broadcast that you can listen to if you are outside of the Washington DC metro area. Their daily 'Bluesplate Special is one not to miss and did I mention the 'Gator'. This cat is abso%26amp;*^^##lutely hilarious and of course hey has an incredible knowledge and library of Blues recordings second to none. Not to be missed, tune in for the Gator's show each weekend on Saturday from 1PM until 4PM. I hope this helps you get your BLUUES back on dawg. Peace.

    I live in metro Atlanta and must lay fescus sod this spring. Can you advise as to the best time in spring?

    It's fescue.





    Lay it in early March, and plan on watering it with a sprinkler three times a day for several weeks.I live in metro Atlanta and must lay fescus sod this spring. Can you advise as to the best time in spring?
    spring, april then the rain will help them grow.





    hope it helps


    laneyI live in metro Atlanta and must lay fescus sod this spring. Can you advise as to the best time in spring?
    .......stuarts answer good.....also put some gold course starter on it 16/8/8 from';Grass Pad';......or possibly a root stimulator......it will really help.....also rought the area up first....I always throw a little topsoil down first.......

    May be addicted to pain meds need advise?

    My husband just moved to evening shift and I work days. I have a 5 year old and a 7 year old and a 2 month old. After I had my youngest I wan on pain meds and I found that when I would take them they would give me a burst of energy and I would be able to clean house and become supermom. I was able to enjoy spending time with my children without feeling so stressed being the only parent and when I wouldn't take them I was so exhausted and it was hard to get anything done. I ran out and dealt with it and then my husband got some for an earache and I started taking them again. I am almost out and I don't want to have to take them to feel like I have more energy. It's not the high feeling that I am addicted too, it is the energy that it gives me. I am wondering if anyone knows of a safer way for me to get this energy or if anyone has been in my situation and what they did to help them.May be addicted to pain meds need advise?
    Yes, you are addicted. No, there isn't anything you can take to get that feeling. You aren't supposed to feel great all the time. That's life. What you have with those pills is unnatural.





    You can never take narcotics again. You need to tell your doctor that you're an addict. Believe me, you will ALWAYS find some reason to need a prescription and before you know it, you'll be doing ANYTHING to get them.May be addicted to pain meds need advise?
    What bmac said is true. I work in medicine, and you don't know how many people I see all the time that are drug seekers. The best thing you can do is to talk to someone about getting off of them. It's going to be hard, I'm not going to lie to you, but it will be worth it. Your kids will benefit if nothing else. You may think that they give you energy and you are a better person on them, but they have side effects, and some you may not be seeing. There are things that will help with energy, but you won't get the same feeling you got with the meds. You need to work on your health, mental as well as physical. You can try changing your diet and exercising. This can give you a lot of energy.





    Talk to someone now!! If not for you, for your kids. Good luck and I wish you the best!!!

    My sister is an addict and she is coming to live with me...any advise?

    Did I mention that I am in recovery and have been clean for 3 years on May 6! I really want to help her and I really believe she is ready to help herself...I just have so much to lose! She already has her bus ticket and will be here on Thursday...I just would like to know if anyone has any encouraging words or any advise for me?My sister is an addict and she is coming to live with me...any advise?
    Be supportive, but somewhat strict.


    Let her know that no self-destructive behavior will be tolerated. If she really wants to get clean, she will understand that you are doing that because you love her, and in the end it will work out.





    Hope all goes well.My sister is an addict and she is coming to live with me...any advise?
    You must tell her there will be no drugs or alcohol brought into your home. Why would you have her move in with you anyway. If she has no place else to go then you have to take a chance, but if there is any other place to go she should go there. She can sign herself into a drug rehabilitation home which would be for the best. Tell her when she arrives she needs to go get help before she moves in with you. Tell her you love her, but you have so much to lose.I wouldn't let her come into your home to live until she is clean. You know what will happen to you if you do drugs again, then you won't be able to help anyone including yourself. Think long and hard. That is why we co-dependent people need a lot of help especially with those we love. That is why it is called Tough Love.
    Having lived with someone who was ';trying to recover'; before... Set your ground rules and stick to them. I shared a place with my step sister and her boyfriend..a nd I told them up front that if they fell off the wagon, I was leaving. Sure enough. they fell off the wagon. I moved out within the week. A down side to having drugies live with you, is that they steal your stuff, or their friends steal your stuff.





    Put a lock on your bedroom door and make sure you always lock it and keep anything you dont want stolen in there. Video games, checks, electronics... LOCK THEM UP.





    Set rules about who she brings over. Any friends with drug problems.. ban them. They will get her in trouble and they will mess things up for you.





    If she slips up.. Dont coddle her. No second chances. Kick her out. Make her actually rely on herself. With my step sister, my parents kept coddling her, and even today shes 27 and they still provide for her and coddle her. She wont ever get better because she doesnt have to. They enable her. They always provide her with money or a place to stay or food or anhything she needs... So dont get caught up in that vicious cycle. In the end, its kinder to be stern.
    three years is a big commitment well done for you





    you should know then that every word that comes out of an addicts mouth is a lie





    an addict cant love anyone other than their drug


    addicts are users


    addicts have ne remorse on using your heart strings which while they will cry and wail about dint feel it





    if you depressed or have a fight or life dumps you and you go i cant stand this any more will you be able to resist?





    its a huge risk if she doesn't want to give up too?





    pay attention to her Friends


    if they look like users they are


    if she is with users she is using





    you have to be hard and harsh with them


    she gives up or moves out





    i know you did it for love, but she doesn't love you she loves the drug
    Maybe you should put her in a hotel or have her live with a different family member if there is one close in the area. She won't be mad at you for this if you sit down and explain exactly what you explained here. You need to help yourself maintain your sobriety, that's the most important thing at this time.
    dont do it! make her go to rehab as soon as she gets off the bus it not yall mise well go together and do the drugs because she is just going to want and talk you into doing them agian. you shouldnt even be around someone like that, you have to worry about yourself you have a lot to loose dont do it
    My advice would have been for her to go to rehab first. One way to break your sobriety is by being around others that do drugs, alcohol etc. It's really easy to get back into whatever your addiction was. Congratulations on your sobriety. Hopefully your sister will do the same.
    just do what you can girl its your sister you must help her it may be hard but you will get there in the end i would do the same for any of my family well done x
    You can't do what a professional can do. Don't let her stay at your house until she gets some help. She will only pull you down and you don't need that.
    hide you money lol but umm its not that bad Living with an addict and if shes been off for 3 years it really shouldn't be difficult at all just dont encourage her to do anything she dont want to that has to do with whatever drug she was on
    Well there has to be rules straight off. You know about drugs so dont let anything suspicious go, if it gets out of hand she must leave and go to a professional establishment to deal with this.
    At the end of the day just offer her all your love and support and believe in her
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