Anal sex any advise on getting it in?

My husband and i have tried it several times however he cant fit, get the picture i dont need to go into the details, each time he wore a condoma nd had large amounts of lube on. I dont want to streatch myself at all so anyone have a serious solution or some special type of lube because weve tried alot.Anal sex any advise on getting it in?
You just got to take it, yea it sucks cuz it will hurt at first then it will start to feel good.





Or u can get a little buzzed so u will be less nervous and u wont feel it so much





lots of lube i mean lots !Anal sex any advise on getting it in?
Hey, Well the most important thing is for that you are relaxed.....!!! Now it isn't really the fact that you stretch yourself there it is more of getting used to the feeling and used to something being there!





The first thing to do is get a few things first get a enema, latex gloves, and there is a lube called anal ease, now the lube will basically relax the anus and allow it to open more freely. The enema will insure that there is nothing there thus removing a possible mental block ok, have your husband use the latex glove and the anal ease to slowly stimulate and penetrate the anus. After a few minutes of playing when you get ready to try to insert his penis Again, remember to relax use the lube like before on the condom and on the anus with the anal ease, as the anal ease really doesn't provide that much lube. Now when you feel the head of his penis on your anus, slowly start to push out as if you are..... well I hope you get the idea. Once inside tell your hubby to take is slow and allow you time to get used to it ok..... Hope this one helps.
I have a very thick tool and my wife is a very petite woman. It took me about a year to finally get it in. I kept working on it, using fingers, sex toys, vibrators, etc until she finally became stretched enough and comfortable. It did hurt the first SEVERAL times (maybe even 6-8 times). Eventually her anus became bigger and stretched enough to accommodate my penis. So size really isn't the issue, it's time, willingness, and patience!
Just a thought, look at the size of your stool.





You normally stretch to about that size anyways.





If hes above average girth and you don't want to stretch, there isn't much more to be said.





No amount of lube will make him any smaller or you any bigger.














You can try to relax, have him use smaller toys, work his way up to larger objects and himself.





But again, if you are worried about stretching, then don't do it.
The only thing that is more important than lube is for you to be completely relaxed.


Focus on that area and focus on relaxing it first, then your whole body. It sometimes hurts a little to begin with, but make sure he goes really slowly and that you trust him to stop and wait whenever you tell him to while he is going in.


When he is in tell him to stay still for a little while until you feel things relaxing into place then go gently.


Enjoy.





- Hey, whats with the thumbs down? My hubby and I enjoy it occasionally and this is what has worked very well for us. Open your minds people!!
Weird Question But Here's The Answer Coming From The Males Side. Me and my girlfriend have done this only a couple of times she not a fan. I'm 18 and Shes 20 been together 4and1/2 years. What You Need To Do Is Start Just With Sex and While Your Having Sex Before You Plan The Anal Sex He Needs To Use His Fingers First To Get You Motivated Then When The Time Comes You'll Be Ready And You Prob Wont Need Any Lube.
start very slowly and work your way up to it. start out just by using one finger (or have him use a finger on you)... wait until you're used to it, then try moving up to two fingers. you could also try using a sex toy if you have one... you need to work your way up to being ready for something larger.





it's not about ';stretching yourself';, it all goes back to normal afterwards, doing this just loosens you temporarily
You need to rub your clit while he starts and you also need to push like you are doing #2 (which you should have taken care of ahead of time right?) that will help you relax your sphincter and get it in there. Once he pops the head in and gives you a bit to adjust its all good.
that sh** is gonna hurt but its not gonna slip in like regular sex he's gotta be hard on u and shove it in there! U may have trouble pooping afterwards and all that bad things!


Good luck though!


Use a lot of lubricants!!!
I say: just take it like a woman and shove it in there.
don't. obviously it was not meant to go in.
this is wrong and an abomination