ThankyouWhats one piece of advise you could give to me as a young woman?
If you find someone you love then fight for that relationship. Don't expect for it to ';just work out.'; If you love them then give it your all. Give that person a little tender, loving care every day. Buy or do things for them just because. Stroke their head while they are sleeping. Make them a cake when they are sad. Explore the world and life with that person. Don't go a day without SHOWING and TELLING your significant other that you love them. Pour everything you have into that loving relationship because even IF it doesn't work out you'll still have the most fantastic memories to last a lifetime and you'll be able to say you've loved and been loved in return at least once in your life.
Let your logic guide you but don't be afraid to let your emotions play a part in the grander scheme of things. Emotions are what makes us human. Emotions are the reason we love and we hurt. Emotions are one of the most important aspects because emotions help make up our humanity.
Kill 'em with kindness. Seriously. It's hard to be mean to someone when they are being so nice to you. Show courtesy and respect to the men and women around you. Always offer to lend a helping hand.
And most importantly, smile. Smile when you're happy, when you're nervous, when you're sad, excited. Smile just for the sake of smiling. Smiling lights up your face and once you smile so long your feelings will eventually be persuaded to align with that bright smile. It will make you much happier.Whats one piece of advise you could give to me as a young woman?
do not let the media (tv radio papers web ect) or other humans control your life! YOU control it don't give up the one thing in this world you can control that is your actions your emotions and your thoughts!
be proactive for yourself and you won't fall into catergories like feminist or tomboy or whatever!
Be you!
Love yourself!
Enjoy life!
and as the guy said! don't sweat the small stuff! he is dead on!
1) Don't hang out with man-hating feminists. You don't need to attach yourself to a subculture in order to feel accepted.
2) Be yourself and be confident. People will respect that more than you know.
3) Remember that when you get older, everything will be a lot clearer.
OK that's 3. #1 works for me but #2 might be better for you. ;-)
';Develop interest in life as you see it; in people, things, literature, music - the world is so rich, simply throbbing with rich treasures, beautiful souls and interesting people. Forget yourself.';
Anyday above ground is a good day!!!!!!!
Be true to yourself - if it doesn't feel right, then it isn't. Don't be stay with a guy if it doesn't feel right, don't do something if it doesn't feel right. Don't be afraid of being alone, with friends you'll never be lonely. When it's right - whatever it is - you will know it.
Please work on developing a strong moral compass. Don't compromise your values to gain acceptance. And despite what others may say here, don't trust your feelings. They will deceive you. Feelings should never be used to determine the rightness or wrongness of an important decision.
I don't know how old you are, but I would say don't marry young. I got married to my first Husband at 19 and he ended up being abusive. My Husband now (2nd Husband) was married before as well at 18 and she cheated on him.
I hope this helps.
BTW... We are happily married in our mid- twenties.
Don't rush into anything. Learn the lessons that life has to teach you. Boys can wait; Life won't.Believe in yourself. Have the tough skin of an elephant. Do a good deed once in awhile. You'd be surprise at how good it makes you feel and how extremely happy you'll make the other person.
Respect yourself and this will ensure others will respect you. Obtain your education and career goals before entering into a serious relationship so you never have to settle for less than you desire for yourself.
You can become an air hostess and wear a nice uniform and fly all over the world serving successful businessmen.
HAVE SELF RESPECT! there are enough crazy, young, lonely, desperate chicks running around getting knocked up and living off of tax payer money.
Keep your legs closed, your eyes open and your mouth shut until you can sum up your entire thought in one sentence.
I would urge her to distinguish verbs like (advise) from nouns like (advice) especially when posting at GWS.
Live like no one's watching.
Don't be afraid to be yourself - because it's the only way you'll truly be happy, no matter what anyone else tells you.
Be independent. wait along time if you want to get married, like 30. become super educated and pursue anything that interests you at all.
Finish college, you arent in love, dont smoke, go ahead and wear the funky hat.
My advice : If you're ';allergic'; to pills, carry condoms instead.
Be strong, independent and love yourself.
Don't sweat the small stuff.
Always...and I do mean ALWAYS put the toilet seat up for your man.....its just polite.
Don't sleep around. : )
find a job to support yourself! do not depends on others totally!
wear heels.. what out for ice.. dont mix drinks.. dont take things that are not for you.. and stay away from ';dat white liqour';
you contact me for a good time.
Don't have kids until you or your husband can financially support them.
And if you've already got 6. You DON'T need another 8.
Also, get married while you still have your young looks. You'll have more of a selection available then.
always shake the ketchup before you use it,
and
you can wind men around your little finger whenever you want, it just takes practice ;)
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