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How I can develop my self-confidence plz give me advise.?
Knowledge is power
Power boosts your self confidence.
Knowledge in what sphere?
This is a tricky question. Knowledge is not only in your academics, it is also knowing everything. Best of it is problem solving skills. These skills come to you with more knowledge about how things work, what are the constituents of material, behaviour of people,..... everything in the world.
If you develop the habit of being CURIOUS about everything in life, you will start questioning everything. The more answers you get, the more knowledgeable you become. Thus you become more powerful. This boosts your SELF CONFIDENCE.
Other thing is that your physique. You make some attempts to realise the capabilities of your physique., your abilities and limitations. Learn to live comfortably with all your limitations.
This boosts your SELF CONFIDENCE.
just YOGA, books, advices, courses, teaching etc. will not boost your confidence, it assists and encourages you to get away from your shyness and under-estimation of your abilities. They may some times mis-lead you into believing and behaving as a superman, while you are an ordinary person like any one.
Few people are born with extraordinary self confidence.
Few people are born with very good communication skills.
But may persons with good self confidence are seen to contain reasonably good knowledge in one or the other fields.
All the best for a CONFIDENT FUTURE.
if you want to develop your self-confidence,you should do right things, in every steps you walk it should be right.
dint ask anyone that u r right or not, just feel in your heart. dont think negative, always be positive,think positive,do positive,that u can do every work u want to do .if u r above 18.then think yourself in every step.if u have a best friend and u trust him,then Sheree with him your every step,dint do conversation with everyone.
Self-confidence is your faith in yourself, it is natural power with humanbeaing.
The developement process start with not to lie with youself, means you should be truthful with yourself and try to achieve what ever you think and put hands in. Start from small things, just solve maths problems, try to speak better, try to improve your handwritting ..... and many more, as you achieve leave it and do not create ego of it. Automatically positive thinking starts and you will get benifited thru it and is called self-confidence.
I really struggled with my self-confidence for a long time, so I know what you're going through. I think the best advice I can think of is to keep trying to find what makes you feel comfortable with yourself. Dont loose track of who you really are just keep developing it. One thing I've learned is that you always keep becoming a more complete ';you'; if you stay close to who you really are. Find what you like about yourself and emphasize it. Find the friends you enjoy being with, the clothes that make you feel good, the places you enjoy and the things you like to do. Get to know yourself and become your own friend. Other people will notice when you feel comfortable with yourself %26amp; that will make you feel good too.
Practice at something you have some ability and interest in... take lessons in something you've been interested in, for example. Not only will you distract yourself from your supposed shortcomings, but you will develop a skill you can have pride in. Martial arts are excellent for this; anything in the arts, or learning a new language, or cooking, or anything else you wish to learn can help here.
You do meditation.Listen your inner voice.Trust and love yourself.Do exercises and listen good music.Go for walk. Watch nature and good TV programmes.Read good educational books.Be comfortable and relax.Be calm and peaceful.Remember God and pray.Take bath and wear suitable clothes your liking develop your self confidence.
There are ways to increase your self confidence... Many may seem simple... practical or even trivial... but they are vital and effective tools.
1-think positive talk positive
2-pat yourself on the back, make a list of all your accomplishments
3-make a list of your good qualities, you will be surprised how many you have
4-recognize small accomplishments
5-dont beat yourself up
6-do what you do best, then teach it to others
7-be thankful for what you have, it can be enlightening, humbling and make you feel blessed.
you can't please everyone,don't care what others think
8-it's only important what you and your God and spouse thinks
9-pamper yourself
10-get a makeover
11-lose weight
12-pray, getting closer to your maker, knowing who you are and what you believe will give you confidence and strength
13-help others,altruism is a true high
14-smile
15-when you look good and feel good physically you feel better mentally and feel better about yourself
16-eat healthy
17-exercise
18-destress, a little ';me'; time
19-learn something new, its a big self esteem booster
20-get your priorities straight
you have to follow the following advices to increase yr self confidence.
1.if u will do a work u should think that';im having all talents to finish this work,nobody is superior to me to do this work';
2.you should not under estimate yr quality,so u can do any possible thing and should not be over confident beyond yr capacity in order to prevent depressive mood after any failure.
3.u have to increase yr self esteem-think like im a important person in this society/family/office
4.forget the failures.dont talk or think about it
5.dream about yr future wishes
6.above all have good faith in god
First you should know life is very short. and also you should understand that you never bring any thing to this world and also you never buy or take to keep some where. so No need to worry for silly matters. when you understand this matter your mind will come under control. then think positively,Be cool Allways take correct decisions that should be allways positive. be honest, Be smile and do some social service, help to poor people play small kids, enjoy with your parents, be confident with your self and communicate with your good friends then you can reach your destination. that is self confident...please avoide the Fear ness that is your mind setting only. nothing will happen if face confidently you can get success within a short period. this is my view. so please be confident never such small quesion again and again ok...gudluck........
Self confidence is already with you , what is needed that you have to reinvent yourself. For this I shall give you some lead points only and later on you may march ahead according to your nature. All you need to do that lead a transparent life, their should not be any backlash in your commitments and actions, Always think that you are on globe to provide service happily and enjoy while serving. Pay respect to every one whether junior or senior. Don't expect from other and perchance you, then if it is legitimate and appropriate say it straight. Practice for six months and if remember confirm it to me . Good Luck
first you have to adopt and also improve positive attitude and bonafideness, never think negatively always think neutrally. don't speak unnecessarily and always speak anything after proper thought also study deeply and absorb complete knowledge about the concern matter, by this way few events of your success developed your self confidence.
Take a deep breath
Sit back
Don't try too hard
So what if you said the wrong thing in a conversation in a formal dinner? So what if you tripped and fell down with your high heels and long dress and the coke splashed all over you? (( happened to me yesterday =[ haha ))
Enjoy yourself. Soon you'll realise that you only live once and that this life can go by very quickly. We only have one go at 15, one go at 19, one go at 22 - one go at YOUTH.
The fact is that there's nothing to diminish your self confidence - it's all made up in your head.
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Find people you understand; put yourself in an environment you feel secure in. This will enable you to do what makes sense to you from the way you dress to the job you choose to the way you talk. You'll have a strong foundation for who you are and great support from this environment. Then, you'll be ready to get out of your circle with confidence. You will be yourself and show it with pride.
[This was my way out of low self-esteem]
AH there's so much to say.
first of all why you think that till now you don't have self confidence.first off all be live in yourself,always think positive,trust on your decisions.i had seen the answers which all has written for your questions but one thing i wanted to tell you is this that writ ting this much big big answers is easy but if you want the best answer for this question then ask it to yourself that are you really lacking in self confidence.
First step to gain self-confidence is to have self-acceptance first. you have to accept yourself irespective of all your weakness. Learn to appreciate the good in you and others and seek the help of others when you really don't know what to do things that are not clear to you. '; Man Can be defeated but he/she can't be destroyed'; - Hemmingway.
so never bury urself beofe you have actual time due for Your burial. so go ahead......will it and own it.
';You are the architect of your own destiny';. Your sub-conscious mind is the builder of your destiny. Whatever you impress on it later will move heaven and earth to bring it to pass. You must impress it with right ideas and constructive thoughts. You have ability to do anything you want. Choose the right path and be successful in your life. May the God bless you! All the best for your future!
well i had that problem before ..first you need to love youself for who you are as a person.. like if your a nice person your fun to be around with .. find things you like .. and afther you learn to love youself for who you are you wont care about how you look on the outside so much trust me . hope this helped and when you start feeling better people are gonna notice and it will make you feel evan better . so worry about loving yourself first alright take care hope you feel better i really do.
Simple.. Be YOURSELF always and ever. Because every one has some unique talents.. Explore YOUR talents. Start Thinking Deeply!!! But at the same time mingle with others also.
Whenever you see people whom you know just SMILE at the them. Smile brings a great energy and enthusiasm within yourself. It makes you to FEEL GREAT. What does it mean?? Your Self confidence level has increased now!! So stay light always even in bad situation.
Remember one thing. Whatever happens in your life 'It is for your good sake only'. If you start to think like that you will not over-react to any situation whather it is good or bad. Then you will gain the confidence to face it. YOU WILL GAIN SELF CONFIDENCE TO LIVE THIS WONDERFUL LIFE...
Start enjoying the pleasures of the nature...
Keep smiling... Stay cool... Good Luck...
Small things makes big difference...What ever the thing u doing , useful or useless,,do it perfectly and 100 percent..
Don't think about the upcoming result once u start any work..
Once u finished a work artistically u will get confidence to do the things..Everything lies in planning...Make short term plans and enjoy the succes of completing it perectly..No need of Meditation...No need of councelling...Just enjoy the work..
All the best buddy..
Believe in yourself
before u take up any task
- look into the mirror and tell yourself ';I CAN DO IT';
- don't let questions like ';CAN I';, ';WILL I BE ABLE TO';, ';DO I DESERVE THIS';, ';HOW CAN I DO THIS';, ';WILL I BE ABLE TO FINISH THIS';......... come into your mind
- never let anyone tell u that u cannot do something ( they say so because they couldn't do it )
- do not share your ideas with your fellow-mates ( they may tend to copy u'r idea and present it in a better way and this may shatter your confidence and the uniqueness of your work )
and most of all........
- think positive about yourself
remember this - ';I AM WHAT I THINK';
'; you are the historian of your past, the custodian of your present and the architect of your future ';
go on and become an successful architect ( architect in this case )
It is your mind setup. first you should feel that you can do better than others. get involved, think and do it try to do differently, get the experience of others do it on your own. avoid spoon feeding. control your emotion, do it concentrately your self confidence will automatically improve
self confidence is not developed automatically.It develope step by step . to developed self confidence frist leave fear from your mind. than think about your mistake. when you do this than you achieve success each step of life than self confidence will develop automatically.
Believe in yourself. Treat others with respect - like you would like to be treated, yrself. Remember we all make mistakes, no one is perfect, but learn from yr mistakes
You could also join a martial arts class, it helps, when you know that you can defend yrself
Find people that make you feel beautiful, that make you feel confident. Everything, in it's own way is beautiful.
A bee on it's own is plain, no? But on the tip of a rose's petal is where it is beautiful.
accept everything what u have. u r the best. in case any mistake occurs, accept it willingly. do everything deeply keeping full attention. if u feel anything bore, leave it for some time.create fresh mood and try again confidently thinking nothing is biring !
dint think about past or feature, because all bad works or good works we are doing , and all the power with in only. whatever we want we can do. and all so their is no bad work in the world. will you tell me, do you be live god is their?
Well, I believe self-confidence is developed by trying out new things or trying to solve your problems. 'Cause that's what happened to me. You can also try out doing things that you feel inconfident about.
Always listen to your heart.If you listen to your heart in any situation then you will find out your weak points. So next time you can take care about that.If you do so than confidence will come in you naturally.
it simple buddy.....think and believe you are the best...friends play a major role in the development of self confidence.....choose your friends such tat they support you...and not the one who betrays you......get close with your parents....coz...dey help you a lot in lyf's paths....
You can develop your self confidence by applying following steps:
1. Learn New things
2. Concentrate on things which are difficult for you
3. Try to resolve your problems at your hand, if not possible then ask for help
You can develop by doing meditation regularly. Then automatically you can get self-confidence.
Regards,
Kamesh
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